Minxy_1

Hello all,

I just thought I would introduce myself, My names Kate I live in hampshire and have just found out im about 6 weeks pregnant. I was happy untill I told my other half and now he has decided he doesnt want to have it. I'm lost as to what to do so was hoping I may get some advice on here!! thanks in advanced

Kate x

weestar21

Hi Kate and Welcome to BabyAndBump

xxxxx

Minxy_1

Thanks weestar21 x

Layla

HI minxy

Sorry to hear about what your going through, has your boyfriend told you his reasons why he doesnt want teh baby?

xx

Wobbles

Hi Kate

Welcome to BabyandBump x

Do you mind me asking how old you are?

To be honest you were happy about the pregnancy & should still continue to be so, maybe he just needs some time to come round to the idea it can be quite a shock when you weren't planning for that big news. I would follow your heart if you want this baby don't let anyone else convince you other wise.

What a horrible situation for you!

Minxy_1

I am 24 years old, I have been with my bf for 4 years and his reason for not wanting the baby is because we cant afford it, and he has an 8 year old daughter and said last time he went through it with no money it was horrible and they ended up splitting up, they hadn't been together 4 years when she fell pregnant more like months. I just think if I do what he wants we'll split up anyway as I will end up hating him for it. x

Imi

Welcome to BabyAndBump !

Sorry your having a bit of a time of it hun ...

Were all here to help and support one another and offer advice.

xxx

Layla

sounds like you have already made your mind up then deep down, i think maybe its prob the shock of it, and if he had a bad expericance last time round then theat will stick out in his mind more.
4 years is a long time to throw a relationship away, give him a week or so to get over the shock and im pretty sure he will come round to the idea.
Money is always a problem for alot of people and they end up waiting for the 'right time' but there is never a right time to have a child were money is concerned, so if you feel you want this baby then go for it.

You will get alot of suport here and im sure your OH will soon see sence

xx

Minxy_1

Thanks, I know its a big shock, but I still can't believe he's being the way he is, 4 years is a long time and he's just acting like im being totally unreasonable wanting this baby! arghhhhhh we're having another chat tonight so we'll see how that goes. xxxxxxx

Layla

best of luck

xx