Introduce Yourself

lillysmum · Jul 9th, 2008, 13:03 PM

sorry to hear about your losses, welcome to the forum

Nicnac · Jul 9th, 2008, 13:10 PM

Welcome to BnB

As everyone has said...you've found the right place!!!

Good luck with your journey

buffycat · Jul 9th, 2008, 13:37 PM

hey millymolly.....

i am so sorry to hear of your mcs.......they are not the easiest of things to handle, either emotionally or physically....so if you ever you need a buddy, pm me....

also, i'm in Shropshire too! where abouts are you?

luv & hugs

millymolly · Jul 9th, 2008, 15:27 PM

Good to hear from you Buffycat

This site has helped me already, its comforting to know there are so many other females out there with similar circumstances who can relate to how I'm feeling. Other people who hav'nt experienced a mc dont seem to know what to say or do and I have been feeling very alone. People do not seem to understand that even if you lose your baby early, you have still been excited to be pregnant if only for a short while, therefore you are grieving when you lose your baby.

One of our two close friends (couple who are pregnant) have stopped seeing us and have told other friends that they are annoyed with us because we are quiet and aren't getting involved with their pregnancy.

This hurts so much as I thought they would understand that we are finding it difficult after having 2 mc's within 7 mths and the last one only being in May . We are happy for them but find it hard to talk about baby stuff especially when they don't talk to us about our previous pregnancies and mc's! (I know other people find it hard but I thought deep down they knew that we are still grieving as we told them last year after 1st mc that it is devastating) I joined this site because I wanted to find out how other's cope with mc and to see if I am being over-emotional or having abnormal feelings.
Sorry for waffling on!
Hope your ok x

Pixie · Jul 9th, 2008, 23:10 PM

I'm so sorry to hear about what's happened to you. I fell pregnant last October and found out at the 12 week scan that I had miscarried. I then fell pregnant again quite quickly but miscarried at 8 weeks in March. We are no trying again and am so so scared that it will happen again. We have to stay positive though and look to better things in the future xx

Tishimouse · Jul 9th, 2008, 23:26 PM

Hi Millymolly,

You're name is really cute and you are definitely doing the 'forum' thing right. Welcome to baby and bump, where you will meet some really wonderful people full of tips and advice and most of all friendship and support. It won't be long before you are giving the advice rather than asking for it.

Lot's to share here and I'll give you a week before you say you're addicted.

I recommend having a look at the trying to conceive forums ... they're good to read.

Also in your situation, I recommend reading this thread Miscarriage Facts & Myths (just click on the purple link) as it has been a great help to so many others who have experienced what you and your husband have gone through.

Sending you some

for your TTC journey.