ladybugg

Hi Everyone, this is my first ever thread!
I am 29 and my dh is 32. we have been ttc #1 for 18 months. I have had all the normal tests and a hsg, which was fine and he has had the all clear as well so we are in the horrible and painful world of "unexplained infertility"
I have just finished 2 months of femara and have just started today on clomid. Just got my period this morning and couldnt stop crying! I know it sounds silly but I was so sure that the second month of femara would be "our month"
I think my friends are a little sick of hearing me talk about all this baby stuff, so I just wanted to find some people who understand what this whole journey is like and who are supportive. Thanks xo

Vickie

Welcome!

Laughkay

Hi Ladybug,

I totally understand where you are. Why shouldn't you cry?! It doesn't sound crazy at all. I've cried too in the past with frustration and longing.

My oh and I have been trying since Jan '06. I've got PCOS and had to have holes drilled in my ovary this year and we've literally just found out last week that we are expecting.
The month that did it? The one month this year when we've spent the whole month decorating the living room and me not obsessing over getting pregnant.
Now I'm jumping and leaping to conclusions at every minute when I should really be enjoying the miracle I've been given. I keep singing Doris Day - que sera sera to try and lift my mood.

Every day is a new one, every month could be the one. I found the old adage was true - when I focussed on something else, it happened.
I wish you all the very best.

ladybugg

Thanks Laughkay
Congratulations on your bfp!! It sounds like you have been through so much! Enjoy your pregnancy and sing as much as you like!!! xo

Laughkay

Ladybug, it'll be your turn next. Fairy dust!

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