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Old Oct 15th, 2009, 16:19 PM   #1
sk29
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Failed IVF


Hi-
I am new to this, I have never been on a chat before but felt that it was time to reach out to other women experiancing the same disappointment I have felt for about 3 years. I have one failed IUI and just found out today my first IVF failed as well. I am completely devestated and feel so much hurt inside. Everything during my cycle was to the text book. I had 17 eggs retrieved, 14 fertilize, 12 embryos and 8 of them making it to day 3, and 5 making it to the blastocyst stage all graded healthy. I had one transferred on day 5 which was the best quality and the other 4 frozen. They have not found anything wrong with me and were so positive this would work. I am so confused as to how everything could have gone so well yet it still did not implant. I will be doing a FET this next cycle that I am praying will work. I am only 30 years old but scared to death that if the 1st cycle failed then how can I be positive the 2nd will be successful.
Has anyone experianced something similar to this with a sucessful story to tell??


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Old Oct 15th, 2009, 18:00 PM   #2
Nikki2291
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Hi-
I am new to this, I have never been on a chat before but felt that it was time to reach out to other women experiancing the same disappointment I have felt for about 3 years. I have one failed IUI and just found out today my first IVF failed as well. I am completely devestated and feel so much hurt inside. Everything during my cycle was to the text book. I had 17 eggs retrieved, 14 fertilize, 12 embryos and 8 of them making it to day 3, and 5 making it to the blastocyst stage all graded healthy. I had one transferred on day 5 which was the best quality and the other 4 frozen. They have not found anything wrong with me and were so positive this would work. I am so confused as to how everything could have gone so well yet it still did not implant. I will be doing a FET this next cycle that I am praying will work. I am only 30 years old but scared to death that if the 1st cycle failed then how can I be positive the 2nd will be successful.
Has anyone experianced something similar to this with a sucessful story to tell??
I have never experianced this no but my heart reaches out to you. I know that when I was trying to get pregnant it never worked as I was constantly thinking about it. Then I forgot all about (not necessarily gave up though) and bang it happened. Stay positive and strong hunn, your day is coming too; everyones does. Feel free to PM me if you need someone to chat to .

~~Nikki~~


 
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Old Oct 17th, 2009, 02:15 AM   #3
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