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Jul 4th, 2009, 16:00 PM
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#1 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member
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| OH's LOW LIBIDO
Hi girls
Is there anyone else on here with a OH with a low libido?
It is a nightmare........
Anybody in a similar boat...get in touch
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Jul 5th, 2009, 12:46 PM
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#2 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member
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| hey, iam in he same boat as u, its can be a total nightmare sometime xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 5th, 2009, 12:57 PM
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#3 | | Everybody,s fat friend :) BnB Elite
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| My husband asnt been into sex for somtime  ...We have a cycle of no sex for a month or so then i moan get upset feel fat and then we may have sex once or twice then the cycle returns ....this as been going on for many yrs well since i was pregnant with ethan and he is 2 yrs 4 months so about 3 yrs ...glad to see i am not alone ...when i ask why he says he dont know when i ask if he enjoys sex he says yes but yet very rarely does he seem to want it  ...You know never have i admitted that to anybody | | | | Status: Online
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Jul 5th, 2009, 12:57 PM
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#4 | | Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict
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| Slip zinc suplaments in their tea | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 5th, 2009, 13:20 PM
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#5 | | Everybody,s fat friend :) BnB Elite
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Originally Posted by lozzy21  Slip zinc suplaments in their tea | Could try that  ...I think its due to pain of carpel tunnel and meds he is on ...He was always up for it before that ...or maybe iam just fat now  | | | | Status: Online
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Jul 5th, 2009, 13:20 PM
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#6 | | Prodest mummy ever BnB Addict
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| Err shoe is on the other foot here, have no sex drive and my hubbys is higher than average.
The more he nags me about it the harder it is for me to be able to relax and do it.
My hubby gets quite annoyed with me sometimes but he's learnt that it doesn't help, best thing to do (for me) is let me do it in my own time when I feel comfortable, and since he's done that my sex drive has started to grow a bit.
I know it must be frustrating but it's really upsetting being on the other side too.
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Jul 5th, 2009, 13:26 PM
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#7 | | Everybody,s fat friend :) BnB Elite
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Originally Posted by Linzi Err shoe is on the other foot here, have no sex drive and my hubbys is higher than average.
The more he nags me about it the harder it is for me to be able to relax and do it.
My hubby gets quite annoyed with me sometimes but he's learnt that it doesn't help, best thing to do (for me) is let me do it in my own time when I feel comfortable, and since he's done that my sex drive has started to grow a bit.
I know it must be frustrating but it's really upsetting being on the other side too.
xxx | Tried this and we went 15 wks without ....I know you said whats right for you ....Ive tried sxy clothes relaxing nights in ...spanish fly ....all sorts i feel he only does it after ive moaned ...so try not moaning or mentioning it and the longer it goes the more fat and unloved i feel ...tho thats my problem not his ....i was a size 20 when we met i am now a 18 maybe when i am slimmer and feel happier in myself him not being interested wouldnt bother me as much iykwim xxx | | | | Status: Online
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Jul 5th, 2009, 13:35 PM
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Originally Posted by serina27 Quote:
Originally Posted by lozzy21 Slip zinc suplaments in their tea | Could try that ...I think its due to pain of carpel tunnel and meds he is on ...He was always up for it before that ...or maybe iam just fat now | Dont be silly!! As you have said hes in pain and on medication. | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 6th, 2009, 22:34 PM
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| Me! It made TTC interesting at times... | | | | Status: Online
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Jul 6th, 2009, 23:06 PM
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#10 | | Everybody,s fat friend :) BnB Elite
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Originally Posted by Lu28 Me! It made TTC interesting at times... | Thats the only time i was getting it regular ...shame it only took one cycle | | | | Status: Online
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