tasha41

Well we all know what broodiness is..

I feel the same way, only about wanting to get married.

It's not fair

I feel like it's never going to happen.

I know people who are engaged,
I have a bridal shower to go to tomorrow,
And I watched Bride Wars tonight...

I know, I know.. it'll come someday, it'll happen when the time is right, hang in there, etc. But it doesn't make it easier, I want it nowww. I want to be at least engaged and planning a wedding.. I have so many ideas in this head of mine..

Honestly I am not engaged but already looking into wedding hairstyles.

I swear, if I go to one more wedding before I go to my own...

OH is such a... butthead (nicer than some of the names I had picked out!) about it too. He teases me so much, lets me look at rings, etc. when we're out... his mother brings home jewelry catalogues to show us...

AND he crushed my dreams of it happening anytime soon, he told his cousin at his cousin's son's party that he wants a house before he gets married and has any more kids.

I just want my wedded bliss, my honeymoon, my bachelorette party, my DRESS, I want to plan, I want to call my girlfriends and tell them, I want to pick my bridesmaids...

Mynxie

I think alot of women are like that, all the stories of Cinderella, Bella from beauty and the beast, sleeping beauty, snow white etc etc etc, the young woman always falls madly in love and her and her prince live happily ever after. It's natural to get to a point in your life want that, even when circumstances aren't right.

tasha41

I have 2 options for colours too picked out already. I am sick!

WTTMommy

aww I actually think it's quite normal. I can't say I felt the same way about getting married cause everything happened so fast with us, but I sure as hell feel that way about getting pregnant I guess it's a similar feeling as I'm always attending baby showers, looking at catalogs, or checking out baby furniture everywhere I go.

Hopefully that time will come sooner for you!

leedsforever

I went through a stage of this... even got wedding mags to browse through...!!

I know its not feasible atm though cos of money but Im not to fussed about it now either... it may pass hun, but I totally get what your saying

leeanne

I get broody about it once a year.

We were engaged once but I broke it off and separated from him for 5 months. Since we got together again, it's never been brought up again and we've been together going on 11 years on May 8th.

I just don't think it will happen now and I've resorted to the fact that it won't. And perhaps after these many years being together, maybe it's best we leave things as they are.

The only thing I may want to do is get my name changed to his last name so that I feel more that I am the mother of my kids who have their dad's name.

tasha41

^ I don't have the same last name as Elyse either. At first I didn't think it would bother me but it is digging at me a bit now.. I guess "if it ain't broke don't fix it"... but

bexy_22

I'm the same. I managed to drag myself out of bed to go the shop this morning and there was a wedding on in the church and I got so jealous and starting daydreaming about how I want my wedding to be. Sad right? At least you're more likely to get married son than I am lol I have to find a bloke first, you're one step ahead

Pops

I am the same but not about the wedding, about the marriage. I just want to be Mrs Gorgeous Boy. I wouldn't care if it was just the two of us down the local registry office.

I know I will be but I do wish we could maybe do it sooner, although, he tells me he has it all planned so we will see!!

xxx

tasha41

Watch after all the crap you went through with your ex you're gonna meet the man of your dreams, fall in love, and get married relatively fast.. while I'm still sitting around waiting to get married because my boyfriend knows I'm not going anywhere, LOL.