i have just had a little boy, he is now 10 weeks old, i am still with my partner, although it doesnt feel like it very much at the moment.

while me and baby were in hospital things were fine, but when we came home, i cam home to an absolute shithole of a house, so had to do all the housework and washing. and ever since then things have been the same.

also he has no interest in our little boy whatsoever, he never picks him up, never pays him any attention at all. refuses to change nappys, refuses to bath him and wont even hold him. my mum does more than he does but they live quite a while away from me. he has took on more hours at work so he now works 12 hours a day 6 days a week.

he says there is nothing wrong but surely this isnt normal, i feel so low, i have even started feeling guilty when the baby crys, incase he gets angry!
i really dont know what to do!

I have just answered you other post hun but on this post you mention being scared of him getting angry if baby cries!

Does he 'get' angry??