LaDY

Since having my LO im on maternity leave and being get SMP...which we all know is shit!...my OH is pulling his weight to bring in the extra money...even days he can have off to be at home he will insist on working as he wants to bring in thje extra cash plus he always complains of being bored at home...he does permenant nights so every day and night its just me and the LO whilst he sleeps during the day and goes to work at night...he decided to take yesterday night off and tonight...he went out last night and came back 7am!!...some all nighter party...he then wakes me up by banging around and then jumps into bed for a few hours...well today we were supposed to spend some time as a family but he is going out again tonight...he says he does feel guilty but its his way of having a break but my question is when do i get a f***** break!!! Looking after a LO is a fulltime job day and night and i dont complain!...am i getting livid for no reason?? x

Vickie

Nope I'd be mad too

MummyJade

You have every right to be mad sweet i know i would be, men just dont understand that looking after a baby is a 24/7 job. maybe you can sit him down and explain how you feel. i know i would be upset if my OH went out partying rather then spending time with his family if he didnt get to see us much.

good luck xx

Samantha675

i feel the same way. DH complains if I hand Bren off when he finishes work cause he needs a break. he flew back last night from a business trip, came to bed at 130, so when Bren woke at 630, i took him out of the room. so at 8 i went back in and asked him to get up as I have been on my own all week. I get 'I didn't get to bed till 130' and he fucking rolls over! BFD, I did notice that he could get his laptop out before coming to bed to play his stupid game, so he cant have been all that tired. Plus he has had 3 baby free nights in a hotel room!!!

So yes, you should be pissed!!!

lfc_sarah

Yeh i would be pissed off!

Selfish

fifi83

Id be mad too very.

xarlenex

Yup, i'd be pissed off too. Being a full-time mum can be so stressing, you deserve at night off, he should have been pushing you out the door to enjoy yourself.

Trish

I would be furious! That's extremely selfish of him.

LaDY

Well he is has gone for another night out tonight so it looks like its just me and my little man tonight...i tried to talk to him but he just didnt get the point...told me he would look after the LO tommorow, which really isnt the point Ah well i may as well sleep...xxxx

Baby-Love

Men.. pfft. My other half can be the same way at times. When I complain and make comment about how I am tired and whatnot, I get.." Well, that's what mom's do. They can be on the go constantly and still function when sleep deprived." Oh really, that's because we HAVE to, not because we want to! So infuriating.