cheeky_carrie

what a twonk !!!!

anita665

Thanks everyone. I told him this morning that in a couple of weeks time I plan to go stay with my aunty for a week. He said a week was too long and he'd miss Pierre. I said, well what about me and he said of course he'd miss me too but Pierre wouldn't even remember him after a week.

I really don't understand him. I've told him if we were to split up I wouldn't stop him seeing Pierre just incase that was the reason he's staying with me but he said he doesn't want us to split up.

This morning he asked me again where my ring was & said I was just being silly.

TashaAndBump

You're not being silly. If he is holding back on a date you may as well not be engaged, right? I'd hold off on wearing the ring until he meant it. You're doing the right things imo Take care x

leeanne

You are definitely not being silly at all about your situation. I think a serious conversation needs to occur between you and he, and if he's not into talking about it seriously then it's time to take some action. You cannot be made to feel this way.

Also, if you are having second thoughts about being engaged/married, but do want to stay with him, be careful hon. I split up with OH for 5 months and returned his engagement ring to him. It's been over 5 years since that separation and I've not got it back. Not sure as though I ever will now.

xarlenex

You are definately not being silly. You need to know he means it. I really hope things work out okay in the end.

I have a book by Gina ford and she talks about how the first 6 months of a new babys life will be some of the hardest time a couple will go through xx

Mamafy

I'm tending to agree with tasha in that why would he think you were accusing of him of having an affair like that out of the blue? That seems abit odd, do you think he could be having an affair? would this explain his behaviour?

I so hope hes not hun I think you are right in keeping your ring off, it will make him think. Why after a long week of work does he find the need to go straight to the pub other than going home to you you work VERY hard too, what if you went to the pub? double fricking standards

Can you arrange someone to look after Pierre and arrange a nice meal out so you can talk? I have to agree somethings up, and its not very nice to have called off your wedding I hope you get to the bottom of it hun

TashaAndBump

^^^ What she said.

How are things today, Anita?

Newt

awww hun I hope you can get it sorted