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Jun 15th, 2008, 17:33 PM
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i will never see or speak to my dad again.He died 6 weeks ago and i think today being fathers day made me realise how much i miss him. I even bought a card for my mum to open and put by his photo! so hope u all had great days. | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 15th, 2008, 17:37 PM
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Jun 15th, 2008, 17:42 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Sadly i wish i had told him how much he meant to me, but of course never did.Now when i say goodbye to my mum i always give her a hug and a kiss in case i don't get the chance again. So ladies lots of hugs and kisses for your dads today please.  | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 15th, 2008, 18:40 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Today must be very hard for you...stay strong, he wouldnt want you to be upset..hes still with you hun and he can still hear you if you tell him you love him. (thats what i believe anyway. | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 15th, 2008, 20:00 PM
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Originally Posted by coccyx  Sadly i wish i had told him how much he meant to me, but of course never did.Now when i say goodbye to my mum i always give her a hug and a kiss in case i don't get the chance again. So ladies lots of hugs and kisses for your dads today please. | Not sure what you 'believe' and hope I wont offend you if I say that I feel your dad would have KNOWN how much he meant to you and that you loved him very much. I believe our loved ones don't just 'stop' existing..... but maybe keep an occossianal eye on us, and certainly know how we felt about them.
Fantastic advice about giving hugs and kisses to loved ones. When my dad got ill I suddenly had a new awareness about how quick life can end. So always do the same!!! |
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Jun 15th, 2008, 20:18 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Thanks ladies I like to think he is watching over me, gives me some comfort anyway. He died the same day our son was born, and when i am giving him a cuddle i always say , a kiss for you and lastly, one for grandad. | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 16th, 2008, 01:07 AM
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| Oh, how sad...and so recent and close to father's day. I am sorry about your loss. | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 16th, 2008, 02:59 AM
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Originally Posted by coccyx i will never see or speak to my dad again.He died 6 weeks ago and i think today being fathers day made me realise how much i miss him. I even bought a card for my mum to open and put by his photo! so hope u all had great days. | Hey Love
So sorry to hear of your loss. I and DH are dealing with the loss of our Dads (5 weeks apart). This is our first Fathers Day without them and it hurts like mad.
It is amazing that it happened the same day as the baby arrived, what a blessing. I know it is bitter sweet because he doesn't have the chance to see him grow but what a wonderful thing that when one soul passes another enters.
Not very religious but I do believe that. I wish you all the best life can bring. Just think, we have our own guardian angels up there pulling for us! |
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Jun 16th, 2008, 12:17 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I was the same after having Ebonii and it was mothers day a few weeks later, the realisation my Mum will never see her its a really horrible feeling  stay strong hun xx |
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