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Jun 13th, 2008, 15:16 PM
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Well after my midwife last week I told her how down I was feeling and worried about the effect on the baby so she said to make an appointment with one of the doctors to talk to.
I went in and saw him today and I can't help feeling shite about it. He told me basically that I need to be prepared for Rich to let me down and not be there when i need him (he knows Rich). But I can't do that I need to believe he's going to be there when I need him. He doesn't think my choice to give baby his dads surname is a wise one, he thinks I just need to accept that there are things going on in my life that I can't do anything about and get on with it basically.
This really pissed me off and now AGAIN all I feel like doing is crying! 
ARGH I'm sooooooooooooo frustrated I don't know what the fucks going on in my head at the moment. 
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Jun 13th, 2008, 15:19 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | hey hun chin up sorry you feeling a lil down big hugs x |
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Jun 13th, 2008, 15:53 PM
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Jun 13th, 2008, 19:16 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Some doctors have big mouths!
I went for a smeer test and as i was laying there with all my nooney hanging out she asks "do you want a clamydia test done whilst im down here?"
My reply was "No i had 1 just before i got with my hubs and ive not been with anyone else."
Her reply "Well, you never can trust men .. ey?? Sure you dont want 1?"
FUCK OFF!
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Jun 13th, 2008, 19:18 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Well seems that the doctor was right though. He's now decided it isn't right and probably won't be there. I feel so let down now. | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 13th, 2008, 20:58 PM
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Jun 13th, 2008, 21:11 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | wonder if the doc knew more about the situation than he let on? Does Rich have same doc?
Sorry to hear you feel crappy right now! You 'DO' have the strength to get through this!!!
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Jun 13th, 2008, 22:55 PM
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Jun 14th, 2008, 04:53 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Sweetie, if you give the baby his last name and he decides to be a jerk...the only way you can get the baby back in your last name is if he actually signs the baby over. Simple, it might seem because he doesn't want anything to do with the baby, right? Not so much so. |
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Jun 15th, 2008, 18:48 PM
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