lorrilou

why is it that men always think they know whats best and can always do somethings so much better than we can?!!!

toriaaaaTRASH

What an idiot?! You're not going to be doing anything wrong it's natural for us to look after our babies. Start questioning him every time he does anything.

meg_lo21

What a turd... I mean, I get the whole new parent stressed out thing. I really do. I would have a serious talk with him, and if he still persists after that, you need to do something about it. You just went through a huge ordeal and you don't need that burden right now... at all! Any great guy would be supportive, not suspicious and a-holish. Frankly, my BF is already acting like a dinkwad, and I haven't even had the baby... when I do, and if he is still being a twat then I am going to tell him to take a hike.
You're stressed out enough you don't need that stuff. You have enough mental and emotional strain right now, getting adjusted to baby.

enigma

That must have been awful , but you are both tired, he was stressed and we all say things we dont mean in the heat of the moment.

Id let him calm down and talk to him, dont leave it to linger because you will just go off like a bomb. Tell him that you are tired and postnatal, you need support from him, you need him to understand what You are going through because he isent going through the same, he goes to work and even though it is work, he's getting away from home for a bit, you are there 24/7.

im really sorry babes, im sure your the best mum you could possible be, hope you work it out.