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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 16:11 PM   #11
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I would tell her, but play dumb. Act like you think Adam has told her already and say that you wanted a chat because you weren't sure why she wasn't interested in the baby.
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 16:20 PM   #12
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Rae05,

i think you should tell, like said before she is the grandma, can t believe he's not saying anything. Why are men frightened of their mums ...lol
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 16:53 PM   #13
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Rae05,

i think you should tell, like said before she is the grandma, can t believe he's not saying anything. Why are men frightened of their mums ...lol
I don't know if he's so much scared of her, but pretending like the situation doesn't exist. I have a few choice words/names I'd like to say/call him right now. I do want to tell her, but I'm scared she's going to be like "well what are you calling ME for?"
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 16:59 PM   #14
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i think u have all the right in telling his mom! i meani dont think its fair hes hiding somehting this important from his mom, i know if roys mom never knew i would b in big trouble! since she told me from the begining not ot keep her grandchildren aways from her when we decide to have children! so i could imagine how she would feel after having the talk with roys mom!
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 17:26 PM   #15
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Id tell her, she does deserve to know as she is a part of your little beans family...
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 17:43 PM   #16
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she has the right to know, she can then make her own mind up. If she knew alread, you will soon find out, then you will know where you stand with her. good luck
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 17:55 PM   #17
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I'm with everybody else. She has a right to know that she is about to have a grandchild (or two). If Adam hasn't told her it is best she finds out from you and not someone else.
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Old Jun 6th, 2008, 21:32 PM   #18
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I say tell her too ... she has a right to know and if Adam wont tell her then you should.

After that if she wants to know then its up to her
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Old Jun 7th, 2008, 15:58 PM   #19
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i would tell her, she will be the babies grandma and should know plus you never know she might surprise you and be some support to you good luck
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Old Jun 7th, 2008, 16:35 PM   #20
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She has the right to know. However, I would tell him if he does not tell her by such and such a date, then I will tell her. I am sure that will a fire under him to get a move on!
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