Jazzy

Hey guys sorry to be a burden but just after advice, my dad is extremely ill, looks like he has a few months left and he had a stroke a few weeks ago that I've only just found out about! Did I not deserve to know? I mean I know he is ill and all, he has been for a long time and due to my step mum hating me she doesn't let me see him unless its on her terms but surely somebody could have told me? All my brothers knew! I just feel completely left out, and angry that nobody told me.

Mynxie

oh huni so sorry to hear your news. I think that them not telling you was bang out of order

Jazzy

I just don't get why they would keep it from me, i mean me and dad ain't close as he hurt me alot when i was younger but he is still my dad

Vickie

You aren't overreacting at all. I'd be very upset if it was someone in my family who was sick and it was kept from me. So sorry to hear about your dad.

leeanne

That's just wrong! NO you are not over-reacting hon!

I am sorry to hear about your dad!

babezone

aww bless hun....really sorry to hear that...and yea i think thats very selfish personally i would say something to my step mum xxx

missjess

You're not over-reacting at all, you deserve to know !!!! He is your dad no matter what. I'm so sorry hun! xxx

Jazzy

Talking to my step-mum is a no go, she has never liked me, and if I say something she will go back on my dad, and with the way he is its just not worth it! Dad has been ill for years and his lungs etc are all failing now so its only a matter of time now, he is quite old but since I've been pregnant, ive seen him twice as they live in Wales. He has only seen Jasmine once and they don't tend to bother with her, they never got a card when she was born and haven't sent me a b-day card or xmas card since I was 8years old