TashaAndBump

I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. I know it's not at all nice... I must be more jellous than you, because there's no way on earth I would even consider letting MrBum go to strip clubs - There's a line that MrBum walks carefully when it comes to other women - going to a strip club wouldn't just be crossing it, it would be him dancing over it! And that would just not happen. No way.

I don't think you're being ridicules at all, or anything like that - Your feelings are perfectly justifiable. Just try to remember, that it is only going to hurt you to continue thinking this way (I'd know - I'm constantly tripping myself up with my jellousy and negative thoughts... I hate myself for it, too! ) Your husband loves you, and you are still a very attractive woman... You have not long had a baby - you need to give time for you body to recover and return to its full former glory, but in the meantime there is certainly nothing wrong with it, and you are just as attractive as those girls at the strip clubs if nor more so - You are not cheap, tarty or sleazy (no offence to anyone who might work as a stripper ) and your body cannot be bought - That makes it priceless x

Feel better

TashaAndBump

I know exactly what you mean with this one - I never look at other people like that, I have my husband and I'm happy with him, and that is 100% the truth. So that makes it so hard for me to understand / bear when DH baltently eyes up the attractive young woman in the mini-skirt... and then follows her down the street with his gaze I will never have the sort of body like those women who he looks at in the street have, and that makes me wonder what he sees in me...

AquaDementia

I have always been the jealous wife unfortunately. But right now, as I have much shittier things to think about, him thinking about how other women look is the last night on my mind. I have never been confident about how I look, and it is probably even worse now I just don't have the strength to analyze my (lack) of self confidence.

Sorry Jess, I can't offer any positive advice.

TashaAndBump

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AquaDementia

I'm a total Negative Nancy, am I?

missjess

Can you imagine how annoying it would be if everyone were ALWAYS positive ?!!

polo_princess

Try not to get jealous hun, even if you do think your fat and have stretchies you are GORGEOUS!!

Much better than any of those motorsport girls hun!!

AquaDementia

easy for you to say, miss supermodel!

amy_tea

I can totally relate to you. Me and OH went to a fashion show last night where i work and all the models were stick thin. They made me so envious.

Last night ended up with me in tears babbling on about how crap i am etc. I don't think for one second he would be unfaithful to me. I'm just irrational sometimes and feel sooo awful with all the changes that have happened to my body. I can't imagine being happy with my body again. But my LO will be worth it.

you're beautiful hunny... you'll be back in shape before you know it

cheeky_carrie

Im the same Im very jealous and paranoid even more so just now with all the extra weight Ive put on Ive never been a confident person and preg hormones and stretching body doesnt help

sorry no advice either jess just