anita665

The other day I was in a taxi with OH and he turned to look at a young girl walking down the road. The taxi driver made some comment and OH said he didn't meant it like that - he thought it was one of our employees. He said he wouldn't do that with me in the car. I thought thanks but it still hurts to know he does that when I'm not around because I can honestly say I don't do that with other men!

Mynxie

I understand huni - I get like that sometimes. I totally trust him and stuff but I get paranoid...the "hat if he suddenly decides that he wants her" etc - totally irrational I know. I know it's different cause I haven't had a baby, I just became disabled.

missjess

I feel EXACTLY THE SAME sometimes... Asking myself the same thing.

Elli21

:Hugs: Sometimes its good to feel a little jealousy, you know that you still truely love and want him just as much as you did before.
Your the mother to his child, i bet he sees you as the most beautiful woman in the world!
I went from a size 10 to a size 18 when i had my first and im now a 16 but feel totally distroyed sometimes....
I know whatever we say doesnt really help as you want to hear all this from your OH. I bet he thinks the same as us though, its just some men are useless with actually telling us how they feel etc.


hope you feel better soon.

Btw, not all girls on racetracks are skanky lol

emmie

I have really struggled with tht problem to, tht sthe main thing tht always causes arguments between us. He still loves u tho and he probably dosent look at u the way u see ya self. reli know the anger and jealously feeling tho hope u feel better soon.

clairebear

hun i know how u feel and i havent had baby yet im stomach is covered in strech marks my ass is huge and my face has filled out dont feel attractive at all and feel very bloated. i know DH loves me and tells myhow beautiful i am and he loves mymummy marks. but it doesnt help us females feeling insecure.

imsure ur man loves u loads and respects u for giving u the best present in the whole world

nikky0907

You had a baby less then two months ago! Hormones rushing over and feeling vunerable,it's all part of it.

You guys took vows and formed a family together.I don't think that there is ever a time when he is away that thw two of you are not on his mind.

Your body can't go back to previous so soon after pregnancy but you are still the beautiful girl he fell in love with. And seeing as you gave him the most beautiful gift ever and he saw how brave and wonderful you are,he only can love you even more.

Of course jelaousy is something we can't control but everytime you get a bit jelaous come on this thread and remind yourself how great you are....

Jazzy

I feel the same sweetie, I hate the way I look and I find myself comparing myself to everyone else, but sweetie you are beautiful, don't think anything different

missjess

Well... There is another party like the yesterday one tonight and hubby is gone over there.. I know it's ridiculous, but this is driving me nuts.

Christine33

i totally understand how you feel. i feel terrible at the moment. i used to feel so confident and took great pride in my appearance but now i seem to wear the same minging maternity clothes and look a mess as i am constantly tired and waddle everywhere.

My husband says i am beautiful but i don't feel it. I am sure your husband thinks you are beatutiful. you have given him a child and no number of scantily dressed females can match that - remember that. your figure will return, as will mine, i guess we just have to be kind to ourselves.

Christine
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