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Jun 4th, 2008, 22:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Having a very weak moment...
Ugh I'm really, really missing Adam right now. I'm so tempted to pick up the phone and call him. This is the longest I've went without talking to him in a year 
I need help, hah. |
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Jun 4th, 2008, 22:14 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I know I know NOTHING of your situation really, but I remember a post you made about his reaction to your twin news and health investigation and he just wasn't suportive!!! ARSE!
It's horrible when you feel vulnerable... we just want to reach out to someone we KNOW can make us feel loved and supported.... and I think Adam would make you feel better for a short time. But try very hard to be strong and not call (easier said then done!!! We've all been here), he sounds like he has the potential to upset you more at this time and feeling worse is not what you need.
You'll get loads of support here hun.... and in your friends and family! Draw on their strength to get you through and hopefully you'll feel brighter and stronger soon.
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Jun 4th, 2008, 22:39 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I know he'll stress me out. I'm still holding back on the phone thing!! I'm just so used to him being around, and I keep remembering everything that was good before this all went down. It depresses me. |
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Jun 4th, 2008, 22:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | try not to remember the good things at the moment, but i know thats really hard to do. my friend is basically in the same situation as you (except she's not pregnant) and when she texts him and he doesnt reply, she gets even more upset than how she was before. so if u rang him and he didnt repond how u would like him to, its only going to make things worse for you. it must be so hard, but time really is a brilliant healer. make sure you try to keep yourself as occupied with other things as possible and it will take your mind off it xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 5th, 2008, 00:26 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | It's so normal to miss what you had...the good times especially. Is he your first love? If so, even harder!
You are going to go up and down but I hope that you can keep strong, honey!
Please do not phone him as I think you would be setting yourself up for frustration and heartache.
He needs to do this on his own.  |
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Jun 5th, 2008, 01:27 AM
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Jun 5th, 2008, 09:53 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | If you call him,he'll just annoy you again and you'll end up being extremely mad.
But it's definitely normal,I mean you guys went from seeing each other every day,living together to not seeing each other in weeks.It's all happened so sudden...
But remember the way he treated you,what he made you go through!He is an @ss and if anyone should call anyone here,it's HIM! |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | This is true! I held out. My friends came down and we had a fire and they made me realize all the horrible things and how they outweigh the good  |
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Jun 5th, 2008, 13:45 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Good job Rae!! I can imagine how hard that was for you!!! |
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Jun 5th, 2008, 13:51 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | things will be better one day and in a couple of years you will be in such a different place you will look back in wonder |
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