Well, he's at it again. I'm sorry to bother you girls with this topic again, but I really just have nobody else to talk to about it without them picking a side.

After my ordeal at the doctor's office today, I decided to call Adam and let him know what was going on. It is his child, afterall. God, that was the biggest mistake of my life. Somehow,me telling him that turned into me being a bitch and not caring about HIS day. He got in trouble cause he slept in and was 2 hours late for work. Obviously, this is more important and discussion worthy than finding out I was 3 months more pregnant than I thought I was, there was two heart beats heard, and there is something wrong with my heart. So now, after him telling ME to "never call his f'ing phone ever again", we're not speaking. I've honest to God never met someone so freakin selfish in my entire life. I just want nothing to do with him ever again.

I have this strange feeling I might very well end up in JAIL if I end up speaking to him again before this baby is born (jk!)

God, what a total arse! It must be hard to believe that this was the guy you fell for when he treats you like this.

Late for work??? Get a decent alarm clock or go to bed at a decent time! Arse.

How dare he not give you the time to tell him about the recent revelations ... about HIS baby/ies AND your health concerns!! Arse.

He's lucky you choose to involve him and are being so accommodating! There was talk in another thread about a harpoon gun being loaned out.... I say get in there! (jk)

I have no idea what his issue is. It blows my mind that he just can't be a bigger person for ONCE. He's just so dense. All of these fight are my fault, I build everything up during the day and take it out on him during the night, etc etc. He is completely innocent and the one getting vicitimized now. So that is just freakin' lovely. The man needs counselling.

What an idiot! He doesn't know what he's losing out on.

Definitely!

He is a spoiled and selfish,child who can't get his priorities in order...

It makes me sad that he doesn't see what a great girl he has who was willing to give his self-centered @ss a chance.
Not to mention your LO...

He seriously needs a lobotomy!
Rae,this is so smiliar to my parents situation,sometimes you just need to close that door,for yours and the baby's sake.

You are smart,strong great mother to be.
You don't need this stress in your life especially now that you have this whole crazy gestation scenario on your hands.
Now,I would never say to take a father away from a child but I belive that the cards are in his hands now...
You're a bigger person than him definitely but everytime you talk to him your pressure goes through the roof!

Let him wallow in his problems since he finds them so important *yawn*
I know you're gonna take such fantastic care of your LO on your own.

The fights are YOUR fault?? UGH...I hate people who make themselves out to be victims in order to dodge any sort of responsibility for their actions.

I would think that you calling him and informing him about his baby (now two, maybe???) is important plus you have a health problem. What is his major malfunction?

To be honest, if it was me, I would not tell him a damn thing after this. And if he asked I would be cool as a cucumber and say, 'Sorry, I am not telling you a thing because I so do not wish to ruin your day.'

And he would not know a thing about when the baby is due and I would make it clear he is not to be there for the birth.

This prick sounds like another one who needs a good old slap with a big, smelly, wet tuna. Half rotten for extra punge-odour.

I have the harpoon...but, I only have one!! It seems like with some of the idiots around there have not been enough manufactured to take care of them all!

I so agree with all of you!

Screw him!