tb42

That will be a bad sin putting psychiatrist in the same situation

leeanne

Oh good Lord, she sounds downright controlling. I surely feel for you honey!

Mamafy

No we've been together 20 years this October
my dh knows whats shes like and knows I'm in the right 99.99999 % of the time

oh and to add more punishment to her is the main reason why I never left its her that cant get rid of me

babezone

oh hun i dont no how u put up with it....u know what i wud personally do i wud say to her either she quits it or ur braking contact with her....tell ur oh if he wants to see/speak to her then he can do so outside of the house....when she stays tel ur oh she not stayin in ur hone she can get a hotel and he can go visit....dont u personally send emails let him do it....dont answer phone calls to her .....basically have nothing to do with her....she will soon realise that shes affecting herself more being the way she is.

Good Luck hun think ya guna need it x x x x

(p.s u could always take sum paint to hers and then pain the front room when shes in bed oh god that wud be so amusing) then change everything around like in the cuboards so she cant find things and say well thats how ur ment to have it lol play her at her own game stewpid women!!!!

greenkat

I agree with babezone - play her at her own game. I'd get a decorator to repaint all that she did in ur home with non toxic paint (I think you can get that?) and the first day she stays with you again make it clear that if she wants to stay in your house she has to respect your wishes. You're the woman of the house and how clean or unclean, tidy or untidy it is, is your choice.

Hope you have better luck with her from now on.