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May 27th, 2008, 16:28 PM
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| No probs at all hun I have big ears please feel free to use them anytime 
I think he needs to give a little bit here and he needs to see the short term for the long term gain.
Have a lovely rest of your day and evening and just remember only half an hour to go  |
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May 27th, 2008, 16:30 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I think your OH is being totally unreasonable...and actually he sounds like my OH. But my OH has learnt...push me too far and stretch me out too thin then ill crack.
Im not suggesting you lose your temper..far from it. But what im saying is sometimes you have to put ya foot down firm!
We're currently living with my dad and step mum to clear our debts..same as you. But OH didnt seem to mind so much. TBH, if it was me, id tell him that i was going to go and help my mum and to help the debt situation whether he came or not. But thats me...im a bit of a handful...
I second spartacus..he needs a reality check!
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May 27th, 2008, 16:31 PM
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| where do you live sparky? |
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May 27th, 2008, 16:32 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Haha Im sure your ears are not big!!  but thank you kindly!
He does, im going to have to sit down with him and put my foot down!
You have a lovely rest of the day too, only half hour til I can leave....then another hour til I can kip!! Early night for me, may even have to tape Britains got Talent at this rate!!! |
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May 27th, 2008, 16:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Spartacus  where do you live sparky? | Just by Bristol, UK
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May 27th, 2008, 16:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Elli21 I think your OH is being totally unreasonable...and actually he sounds like my OH. But my OH has learnt...push me too far and stretch me out too thin then ill crack.
Im not suggesting you lose your temper..far from it. But what im saying is sometimes you have to put ya foot down firm!
We're currently living with my dad and step mum to clear our debts..same as you. But OH didnt seem to mind so much. TBH, if it was me, id tell him that i was going to go and help my mum and to help the debt situation whether he came or not. But thats me...im a bit of a handful...
I second spartacus..he needs a reality check!
Will you be able to keep the house if you move into your mums?? Or wil you still have to sell it? | We'll be able to keep the house, if we did it on a short term rent then we could move back in at pretty much any time too.
I will have to put my foot down I think, but then I worry if it will cause probs between him and my mum if I force him to move there. We practically live there anyway as I like to see my sister a lot and mum does dinner for us 3 times a week!!! He does need a reality check. Right, thats it, Ive made my mind up, Im going there, with or without him! |
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May 27th, 2008, 16:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Sparky0207 Haha Im sure your ears are not big!! but thank you kindly!
He does, im going to have to sit down with him and put my foot down!
You have a lovely rest of the day too, only half hour til I can leave....then another hour til I can kip!! Early night for me, may even have to tape Britains got Talent at this rate!!! | make sure you do hun! you have the upper hand here I know it sounds harsh but I think rather fair
Ooooh yes Britains got talent!! I will be up at the hospital visiting my mum so will need to sky plus it well remembered!! enjoy your kip |
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May 27th, 2008, 16:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Sparky0207 Just by Bristol, UK
xx | Shame if you lived in London we could have met for a coffee xx |
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May 27th, 2008, 16:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Sparky0207 We'll be able to keep the house, if we did it on a short term rent then we could move back in at pretty much any time too.
I will have to put my foot down I think, but then I worry if it will cause probs between him and my mum if I force him to move there. We practically live there anyway as I like to see my sister a lot and mum does dinner for us 3 times a week!!! He does need a reality check. Right, thats it, Ive made my mind up, Im going there, with or without him! | Good luck  It truly does sound like this is the best course of action for you, hopefully he will come around to see that |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I like London! Tis a shame I am confined to this part of the country, I would love to live somewhere like that! |
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