bexy_22

In the thread I started about my OH there was a number of mixed reactions on how other people would react if they found out their OH's had kissed someone else.

So I was just interested to know what you girls think about it? Is it cheating? Would you forgive them or chuck them out? Could you tolerate a kiss but not anything more?

By the way, this isn't an opportunity for you to get your handbags out on each other, everyone is different and react to things in different ways and there is no right or wrong answer!

Linzi

My Oh has some friends who are girls and he gives them hugs and kisses on the cheek and stuff like that, that doesn't bother me. Even if it was a peck on the lips, I probably wouldn't mind.

Anything more than a peck though, no way. I would probably stay with him and make it work, but it would not be easy for him to get back into my good books.

xxx

Dippy Yvanne

a peck isnt cheating, but "snogging" def cheating imo.

but personally i feel kissing can be as intimate as sex etc so if my oh passionately kissed another girl id be raging!

oOKayOo

Cheating deffinetly x

doctordeesmrs

I agree with Yvanne on this one. Although it's a difficult situation.

rae05

I agree with the other girls. If it was just a peck goodbye to an old friend or something, I'd be alright. An actual kiss kiss, he'd have to start running really, really fast.

jacky24

Me and DH have an understanding, hugs are o.k.
But no one not even my mother kisses my DH, hallo or goodbey.
Me and DH see our ex's quite alot and OMG, my ex can't even look at me and DH want's to *PK* him, so same for his ex's my nails come out.

I personally feel my DH lips are meant for me only, as it has from the begining of our relationship been a huge kissing party.

*DH LIPS ARE MINE*

, hope all works out.

bexy_22

I agree with that too. A goodbye peck or something I wouldn't be bothered about. If it was a deliberate kiss, especially to someone he had a 'past' with it would be a whole new story. I would never give my OH a second chance if he slept with someone or passionatly kissed anyone. Like Yvanne said sometimes a kiss can be just as bad as sleeping with someone

momandpeanut

I agree aswell !! Snogging is out of the question !!!

bexy_22

I admit that I'm very possesive over my OH though. But at the same time there has to be trust otherwise a relationship won't work. For example, this morning when looking for sellotape in OH's drawer I found some condoms which he could only have bought when he went out to town on monday and it's odd because obviously we don't use them. But I trust him enough to realise he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. I just have a lot of problems trusting people.