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May 22nd, 2008, 17:03 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | i think id rather my bf got oral sex off a girl than kissed her
i personally class cheating as something which u wouldnt want ur OH to find out about- even if its just chatting to other girls online. cheating is when ur doing something that u know u shouldnt be (my opinion) | | | | Status: Offline
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May 22nd, 2008, 17:05 PM
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Originally Posted by bexy_22  Lol they were the kind of condoms you get out of those machines at clubs. I'm not sure whether I should be worried as there doesn't seem to be any missing.
Here's another question then. Would you prefer it, if your OH did cheat on you, that it was with someone he knew, like a friend or a complete stranger? | hmm id say a complete stranger i.e. someone in a club. i think if its someone u both know, then there is probably feelings between them, but if its a stranger, it was probably a one off spur of the moment thing | | | | Status: Offline
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May 22nd, 2008, 17:57 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | A peck on the cheek I could tolerate. Not on the lips though, my no, after that the only thing his lips would be kissing are my feet and my ass.  If it was a real kiss and he told me about it, I'd try to work it out. If I found out from someone/something that would be it. |
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May 22nd, 2008, 18:06 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Kissing is still cheating IMO.
It's being intimate with a person.Of course sex is the ultimate form of cheating but sometimes a kiss means more than sex.
But as I understood,your OH was kissing this girl in some kind of game? |
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May 22nd, 2008, 18:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Oh no, that was a misunderstanding. I thought he was but turned out he had to pass beer along a line via mouths lol gross i know
and sometimes a kiss can mean more to someone than sex |
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May 22nd, 2008, 21:04 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | My OH knows he'd be shown the door if I found out about anything more than a peck on the cheek!!
I like to think he knows he has too much to loose to even consider doing anything!!
I'm not a forgiving person & find it hard to trust people!! |
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May 22nd, 2008, 23:45 PM
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May 22nd, 2008, 23:48 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | my cousins OH accidently dropped condoms in front of me! theyd only just had a baby! i never told her but now there little boy is 3 and he goes missing alllllll the time and leaves her with the little one! if i seen my OH hugging another girl he'd feel me looking at him through the back of his head lol, he knows better and if he ever did do anything hed b gone. lol x |
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May 27th, 2008, 12:11 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I would say its cheating. I always said id never stay with OH if he cheated but then he did and im still with him so it doesnt always mean the end. I do have problems trusting him now though | | | | Status: Offline
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I hope there is some sort of explanation that is feasable, because condoms?..... 
