bexy_22

Lol they were the kind of condoms you get out of those machines at clubs. I'm not sure whether I should be worried as there doesn't seem to be any missing.

Here's another question then. Would you prefer it, if your OH did cheat on you, that it was with someone he knew, like a friend or a complete stranger?

Helen

I fully expect my DH to kiss my friends, his female friends and our family socially on the cheek. If he didn't, I would think he was rude.

However, I wouldn't be too thrilled to see him kiss a female friend on the lips - even a peck, that's just too intimate. A snog would get him a serious ass kicking! I doubt I'd dump him but maaaaannn he'd pay!!!!

As for the condoms...how can there be an innocent explanation for them? The only explanation could possibly be that he's had them before you and he were together. But if you go in that drawer a lot and they weren't there before, then a slow painful death beckons for him.

bexy_22

I just don't understand why he'd buy them and (as it seems) not use them... he was pretty drunk. But it just seems odd to me. When he gets in I'll just ask him about it.

leeanne

I totally agree with everything you said in your post from the kissing to the condoms!

I'd like to hear his excuse about the condoms since he's already given one about the kiss.

rafwife

I consider the intention to cheat, cheating.

Why should I settle for a man who isn't 100% into our relationship? In my opinion, if my OH were to kiss another woman then that is disrespectful towards me. Why should I be with a man who doesn't respect me?

I've been with men who have cheated before, and I'm not the type of woman to sit home crying about it. You screw me over, and I'm gone. It's why I have such a good relationship with my OH. I didn't waste time on all the shitty men before him.

bexy_22

Good for you wish I wasn't such a whinger!

doctordeesmrs

I just spoke to my DH about this for his opinion. I asked him if he had to kiss a girl to win a new motorbike would he do it? His answer was yes i would even snog the queen (each to his own). So i said you would cheat on me for a new bike? What if it was the other way around and i had to kiss someone else. He said he would break the guys legs. So guys obviously have a completely different perspective on this.
He then said i cheated on my hen night cos i got drinks bought for me and a guy's phone number as part of a dare. This was all said in jest so i don't think he really means it but it was interesting to see it from the other side.
As for the condoms he said how do you know that they weren't as a dare or as part of prank.

Linzi

My OH has really strong views about cheating, all three of his ex's have cheated on him with his close mates. Because of this he can get really paranoid, which at times can be annoying, but its only natural.

Although my ex got another girl pregnant while I was asleep in the next room so I must be far more tolerant than him, I dont know.

Ive always thought men are always far more insecure though, from men who I know anyway.

As for this I think I would far prefer him to go with a stranger than a friend. Because I guess if he went with his friend it would mean more than if it was some random girl.

Still, he would get his ass kicked.

xxx

bexy_22

lol i agree. with a friend it means he must've been thinking about it rather than it being a spur of the moment thing with a stranger

babezone

i wouldnt finish him for the kiss but he wud defo have to be makin it up to me.....and as for the condoms id defo be having words! xxx