BeckyBoo

I think it's all down to personal opinion hun.

I would say it was cheating. I wouldn't say it was cheating if it was a peck on the cheek or lips... but I mean closed lips, like you kissing your nanny, I wouldn't be pleased. But a snog... no way. Get out, go away and kick him in the nuts.

But that's me. I believe a partner should be devoted 100%.

jacky24

O my word, i would chase DH out of my house if i had to find condoms or anything in the line of SEX or another womens lipstick.

DH knows i will kick his ass, i did karate for 8 years. I will break his face in a million pieces, i will even mess my expensive manicure and gel tips up to get to him.

Have you asked DH *condoms*????????

Dippy Yvanne

im sorry but condoms i wud seriously be askin him why the fook he had those!

bexy_22

Oh nooo not again lmao I only just asked him about the whole snogging thing that actually wasn't snogging! Is there no end to this madness?? He is at work atm but when he gets back I'll ask. I'm sure there's a completely innocent reason why he has them.

And lol Jacky!

alyxzandra

My fiance and I have an understanding. He snogs someone, I will snog someone better looking than he is just to be a vindictive bitch. And then kick his arse. Like jacky24, I studied martial arts (kung fu).

I would really be up in a tizzy over the condoms....

magicvw

There is no way I would react calmly to finding a packet of condoms! Like the other girls have said, a peck is fine for me, but my DH never does that anyway. If he did snog (or worse) someone else that would be the end for me, even after 15 years together - I don't think I could handle being with him anymore. Hope I never have to find out how I would react!

bexy_22

Well I just went to check the condoms and you get 2 per box and there's 2 boxes and almost died when I only found 3 but one was hiding lol it just seems a weird thing for him to have, especially stashed in his drawer. Ah well. I think after I've had bubs I'll practice martial arts, sounds fun!

I like your style Alyx!

greenkat

I made it pretty clear to my OH what I think is cheating and not, so if I found out he kissed someone else I'd be really angry - for me it is cheating. I think it depends on your relationship though and how you work together.

Sorry to push the point further - but if I found out my OH bought condoms when we don't use them that'd send alarm bells ringing.

Hope everything works out for you.

Loula

which is why even prossies don't kiss

I completely agree with you. a kiss is cheating, a dirty email is cheating, cybering ( ew!) is cheating.

jacky24

Good luck hun, i don't want to be in your shoes. I honostly would lose it and might end up in jail if that was my DH.

I sommer get mad for your sake.