rae05

I know I shouldn't be posting this but I need to freakin get it out somewhere!!! I left Adam about a week ago to move home with my parents and take a freakin' break because he was driving me into a damn mental asylum. So now that he can't keep damn tracks on my every god blessed move out there, he's apparently taken to hacking into my e-mail and facebook. I e-mailed an old friend of mine, it was an innocent thing. Adam must have hacked into my account and read it. Now he's accusing me of cheating on him on the internet and that I can't be straight up with him!! I am THREE MONTHS PREGNANT! WHO THE HELL AM I CHEATING ON HIM WITH!?!? HONESTLY!!!!!!!

I may have to get a new screen name girls, because Lord knows he's probably on here reading every post I make! ARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG.

We're so over. We are over like we've never been over before.



Sorry for all the cursing, its a cursing sort of situation.

leeanne

He sure seems like one controlling male and I surely would be pissed too. If he's this controlling now, how will it be a year or more down the road?

rae05

He isn't getting the chance to see one year down the road. I've never been so angry at someone in my entire life. This is what I said in the email:

I need to speak with you immediately. It is incredibly important. I would suggest that you get to your e-mail ASAP and get in contact with me

You can see how he OBVIOUSLY interpreted that "oh, what a sexy e-mail. My girlfriend is OBVIOUSLY cheating on me with this man". I told him to go get counselling.

leeanne

Yes, I can certainly see why he'd think you were screwing around.

Absolutely ridiculous.

Know one thing that concerns me is that controlling individuals often carry on to be abusers. Not saying for sure he will, but your post about the cleaning of the house that day just seems too much.

rae05

Yeah, I know. My mom's best friend just left a 25 year marriage cause her husband was the exact same way Adam is. I'm fully aware of what he's like, I was just trying really REALLY hard to make it work because of the baby. But I'm done with that now. I can't be with someone who wants to walk over me, I'm not that type of person.

leeanne

I understand. I've seen my mom in those relationships and I don't like seeing a woman treated like that. It really pisses me off to no end.

I wish you a lot of luck hon and hope all the best for you!

Linzi

Im so sorry hun, I went through something similar with my ex too and ended up going to the police about him because it was ridiculous.

Irts horrible but just stick to your guns - he'll get tired eventually.

And good on you for getting out

xxx

masi

You sound like an incredibly strong woman, which is good, because these sorts of people often choose someone weaker than them. My friend is with a controlling partner, she has to ask him permission to go somewhere while he's at work. You're better off without him!!

BeckyBoo

You're a fantastic girl. I have no fear you will manage absolutely incredibly on your own. He just sounds like trouble you don't need.

Change your passwords and e-mail address on everything you can think of xxx

doctordeesmrs

I know exactly how you feel. i was in that type of relationship years ago and my advice is to get out while you can.