now i dont know if its my hormones playing up because i have never got suspicious before the whole time i been with my OH but Sunday he came in at 1am, Monday he went work and was sleeping all evening, tuesday he came in at 1am, yesterday he was at home and now tonight he texted me saying he is home late tonight. Im really pissed off.

The thing is he has two other children by two different women (i dont half pick 'em) and so he goes to see them during the week. We live in South london and he used to live in North London (this is also where his family and friends are) so i understand that he goes to see his kids and family etc but at the moment im starting to feel like im a part time girlfriend.

When he is at home, he is attentive, loving and not suspicious (phone calls, texts, etc) so i dont have any other reason to doubt but i dont like him coming home at them sort of times. i keep thinking that he cant be with his kids in the evening, dont they go to bed? and when they do then wehere is he?? When i talked to him about it he got defensive and said that he wasnt aware he had a curfew! and that he has to see his kids (and that he cant always see them on the same days cos of the different mum's schedules) and also he wants to see his friends and family.

I just feeling pissed off of being in the house on my own.

Am i being irrational?? Sometimes i feel i am but then sometimes i dont and then other times, he is at home and i cant be bothered and want him to go out and leave me on my own!!

aaaaargh!!

I'd be pissed off! You should ask him how he would feel if you did that to him!

I would not be happy, either. You are pregnant and need his attention, as well. And why should be be defensive because you are saying you need him there? His head would be on a platter and his mouth stuffed with an apple if it was me.