Hey huni...you have the most precious gift inside you...and hey would you really want to share it will such a asshole...keep smiling babe and if you wana chat im here...i admire your strength x

I'm about to be a single mum too. My husband and I were married when I fell pregnant and he wanted me to have an abortion! I said no and he cheated on me to deal with it. I say you're better off without him Vicky and it may not feel that way now, but ultimately it's best for you and the baby. My son is now 18 months old and my DH and I are almost finished getting a divorce.

Oh sweetheart I'm sorry. You sound as though you have a good family around you though.

I know it doesn't feel it at the moment, but this will make you a stronger person and you and your LO will be just fine together x

I can't believe how similar the things we're going through are really.

My partner was moving from Canada to the UK and we were in the middle of his fiance visa application when he just..well disappeared. Tbh I think he's with an ex but I dunno, he aint man enough to come and tell me whats happening. He's turned his back on his fiance and his baby without even a word, and I'm much the same position as you now, gonna be a single mum and 22 by the time baba is born.

I'm petrified right now I'm not gonna be good enough, and so angry that is baba needs anything from him, like blood tests to check for certain abnormalities in the blood, babas gonna be put at risk because he's a selfish arsehole.

I'm devastated yeah, but at the same time I'm like right... hurt me... but don't you DARE hurt your child. I'm so angry at him right now. Feel really lost, like can't be excited at baba being here as I've failed as a mom already with him going, before babas even here. It's stupid I know, I just want to get hold of him and make him see what he's doing is wrong. But he's not even man enough to do that. Sorry hun for ranting. But much love to you. We'll get through this <3 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Just try and think that in 9 months you are going to have a little person who will love you so much and will not cheat on you!! Try to think of the positives!

being a single parent is not easy but its rewarding and you will find someone that is good to be in your life and your baby's.

and remember, if he cheated on you, he'll cheat on her! karma is a bitch and he will get whats coming to him!!

Thanks ladies

A couple of weeks have passed now and I'm already starting to see the brighter side of things. I'm still heartbroken and have my days where I want to stay in bed and cry all day, but then I remember I need to keep going for LO.

I'm still ready for the rampage if needs be, but I'm a firm believer in karma. He's cheated before he got with me, he's done it to me now, so he'll do it again. His new bit of fluff will see him for what he is before long.

He doesn't ring me to ask how baby is, or how I am for that matter, but everyone else knows bar him. Even some of his friends.

I may have lost him and my entire life with him, but I have some amazing friends who've really stepped up the mark recently. I can't ask for much more than that.

I'm not going to stop him being a part in the babies life, but i'm not going to chase him to do so. He can do the chasing for a change.

I'm glad things are looking abit brighter for you hun and I'm glad your friends are supportive towards you. Like i said if ever you need a rant/cuppa tea/hug feel free to pop over. x

He sounds like a commitment-phobe. But, at least you have people who are there for support and one day, he will learn his lesson.

Chop that off him and give it to the dog. I think maybe you will be better without a man like that and you can be a great mom. It's his decision to pick stone not gold, what an idiot ! Sorry to hear that you have to go through this, but at least your family and friends are supportive.
You don't need him to build a happy family.