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I know it must just be hormones but I am so angry today!!!!!!
First my mum has invited herself over tomorrow with my step dad for dinner (which will have to be paid for out of our pockets). I'm not happy and I told her the restaurant will be busy. She says they want to see me but I said I won't be able to sit with them because I have to work. I also told her that if they are going to come they need to give me plenty of notice of what time because it will be busy. Well I've still not heard from her to tell me what time! She also wants to show my step dad around my flat. I said I don't know if I'm going to have time for that but she said she could do it on her own.... excuse me but it's my flat and we are not exactly close. Deffo not close enough that I would let her go in my flat on her own!
Then I spoke to my nan to ask if she knew where my mum was as I was trying to get hold of her to find out when she plans on showing up tomorrow. All my nan wanted to talk about was ebay again (she called me literally 5 or 6 times yesterday to tell me about it). Then she was saying something about me giving birth which she doesn't approve of?? and she wants the baby born on her birthday.
They're all doing my head in!! I swear I wish they would all just leave me alone!
Oh hun! Sounds like you seriously could do with a time-out! Is there anyway you can get out for a walk or something just to have a few mins? When i get really wound up and stressed it helps me to walk it off - or waddle it off when i was 8months+ pg like you! (I was huge!).
I hope you feel better soon x x
I am sorry to hear your hormones are playing up. It sounds like the last thing you need is for your mum to come over. Can you not tell her you are taking a rain check? Ask her if she would consider coming over another time when you are not so busy? Tell her then you will have more time to sit and talk to her.
It sounds like what you desperately need is some time for yourself where you can just relax and chill. Sending hugs to you.