well 2month since i split with darren already!!!!

and still no further forward! i know it cant be fixed overnight.. but hes really bringing me down!!!

he keeps harassing me texting/phoning/bad mouthing me etc etc.. its just all so petty!!! i hate it!

ive tried ignorin.. ive tried bein nice... ive tried nasty.. ive tried it all what more can i do??!!

i would either change me number or phone the operater people see if they can blok it...if u call them and say u r gettin harrased they usually give u a free simcard.....or u could say u going on holiday for a couple weeks so theres no point in contacting u.....cant really tink of anything else apart from run away lol x x x x oooooor why not get a pal to text him an pretend to be a random gal giving him attention of a diff number...he might take his thoughts off u...ya never no lol good luck any way x x x

When you have kids you can't just chnage the sim really!

Feel for you Yvanne I don't know what to suggest I thought things would settle for you but it seems to have got worse x

Maybe tell him if he doesn't play fair you'll have to involve lawyers and do yur communicating through them? You could say you don't care about costs because you can't be having the stress and having it rub off on the kids? Don't know anything about your situation, so I'm not going to say anything else

No advice really as I haven't been in that situation myself but didn't want to read and run

I don't really know what to suggest hun, sounds very difficult. At least you're the one being adult about it.

Hope it settles down. Could you not give your phone to someone like your mum and have like a 'middle man' so you're still able to get messages to each other but he wont be so abusive? Might open his eyes to the fact that he's being such a baby too.

Hope it works out *hugs*

xxx