possibly you are anxious as of the cut and therefore aren't relaxed?

just take your time, pushing a baby out down there is a major change to the body and not like eating a strawberry cake!

you need to recover as well physically as mentally and emotionally from it!

we are co-sleeping with LO, the best contraception ever

I'm atrocious on the pill - constantly in a bad mood. I just avoid all hormone based contraception.

Thanks. I'm going to have to go to the doctor because i haven't had a period for 6 weeks. but because i missed a day here and there is this why i haven't had a period?

I hope you don't mind be being crude, but if it is lubrication you need. I was always dry I have no idea why I have always been like this even before having my daughter. However my husband and I thought we would try and see if there was anything for that so we ventured into Anne Summers for the first time about a year ago and they recommended something called Play massage 3 in 1. Let me tell you, I have never looked back. It is excellent. It costs £6 but, it lasts for ages. I am sure this would help anyone who is suffering from being dry.

Thanks i if it carries on like this then we'll give that at go.

To be honest i don't even want sex, i have had no sexual urges since i had my baby. My sex drive is zero. Anyone else experience this after giving birth?