your in no way being unreasonable i feel sorry for ya im kinda in the same boat, my oh always has his friend around - near enough every night (he was even round a few nights after i got outta hosp with baby!!) i HATE IT!!! does my head right in but when i say anything says that im controlling and ttryna stop him seeing his mates.. i aint i just dont like sharing my settee with 2 lads playing on the ps3...id rather him go out and leave me and babe in peace and quiet lol.
dont think ur being unreasonable though its not fair that he can sit n play while your running around after baby and probably him and his mate too! xx

God yeah mummy&mase, that sounds so similiar! My OH's mates isnt here everyday but he might aswell be cus he sits there playing xbox live with him everynight anyway..i find myself going bed early everynight to get away from it, it does my head in that much..when all i really wanna do is get Oliver to bed early and curl up with my man!! But he'd rather play games with his mate so i dont feel very wanted or apprecitaed to say the least.Ive told him i dont feel like i get noticed anymore..he told me i'm being silly! He says we cant spend time together in the evenings cus by the time Oliver has settled its too late! Yet suprisingly not too late for xbox?? x

Tut hun you need to put ur foot down more thats what i keep trying lol. Yeah i know what you mean Mason is in bed by half 8,so we have the evening to chill out etc but nooo hed rather play pro evolution lol so im in bed by 9 watching telly on my own its crap lol.
But id defo put ya foot down abit more, even if its 2 nights a week you sit and watch films together.... Easier said than done i know hun x

I wouldnt have a problem with the friend coming over and playing xbox for the day as long as it wasnt preventing US from doing something together that we wanted. What I would have a problem with is my SO being too tired the next day... I would expect that he would go to be at a good time, like a big boy, and get up the next day like normal.

Does your SO usually help out well otherwise? I think if he does then 1 day wouldnt be so bad. I know what when I have my baby im going to want a break and some time to myself now and then, and I know my SO will too...

But everyone is different in what they find acceptable. Good luck!!

I'd say no to the bloody TVs and room changes! Bloody hell!

As for the console I'd dance on that in temper knowing me there has to be some give and take when LOs arrive nevermind just respect for the fact its your home too!

Stick your foot down hun firmly - nip it in ass now!

Have you mate round
Have a drink
Play your console
Go out
Recovery the next morning
No second TV
No changing my front room round
Clean your mess 'before' leaving for town
You give me a break the next afternoon after you have recovered

I like your thinkin, thanks wobbles. x