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Apr 7th, 2008, 19:12 PM
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#1 | | Rachel An Her Little Man Chat happy BnB member Proud Teen Mummy To Be x Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Liverpool
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Bad situation, advice please? ok so here it goes, my little sister hasnt take to good to me being pregnant and she is younger so obviously she is more at priority because she still needs to go to school etc. but anyways i have been told by my mum that jessica (my little sister) would feel better if i didnt live here so i need to find some were else to live! i know this sounds mad but my sister means the world to me and if she would feel better without me living here then fine i wont. its just i dont no how to go about the whole thing, i am 16 years old how am i supposed to know how to organise moving out?? where do i even start ?? i dont no | | | | Status: Online
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Apr 7th, 2008, 20:54 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | How old is your sister? Have you spoken to her? I have trouble imagining that she would be so uncomfortable that she would not want you around.
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Apr 7th, 2008, 21:01 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Maybe a talk to her and find out whats bothering her? seems extreme to want you to not live there anymore.
First place to start would be to get application forms from your councl/housing association | | | | Status: Online
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Apr 7th, 2008, 21:10 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | What does your mom say? Does she want you to move out too?
Like the others have said, I would talk to your sister. Maybe she is just jelouse and afraid that you wont love her anymore because you will be a mom. | | | | Status: Online
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Apr 7th, 2008, 22:44 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | aaww thats abit unfair ur sister kicks up a fuss and she gets what she wants u move out i feel that ur mum needs to tell ur sister taht she cant have everything her own way and she will need to adapt to the new situation as its not fair on u hunni thats how i feel can u not talk to ur mum and ur sister its not fair pregancy can be stressful as it not that as well xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 7th, 2008, 22:49 PM
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#6 | | Rachel An Her Little Man Chat happy BnB member Proud Teen Mummy To Be x Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Liverpool
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
Originally Posted by Samantha675 How old is your sister? Have you spoken to her? I have trouble imagining that she would be so uncomfortable that she would not want you around.
Are you planning on living with another family member or on your own? | shes 15 an yeh it makes her sound like a brat but what can ya do.
none of my family have room at the minute, well not for me and baby bump x | | | | Status: Online
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Apr 7th, 2008, 22:51 PM
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#7 | | Rachel An Her Little Man Chat happy BnB member Proud Teen Mummy To Be x Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Liverpool
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Originally Posted by Suz What does your mom say? Does she want you to move out too?
Like the others have said, I would talk to your sister. Maybe she is just jelouse and afraid that you wont love her anymore because you will be a mom. | its not that my mum wants me to go she just knows i can look after myself on my own and my sister cant. i know shes in a hard situation so im not making it harder for her by refusing.
i try talking to her but she crys and then changes the subject, there is no getting through to her AT ALL! its annoyin | | | | Status: Online
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Apr 7th, 2008, 22:53 PM
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#8 | | Rachel An Her Little Man Chat happy BnB member Proud Teen Mummy To Be x Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Liverpool
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Originally Posted by Iwantone!!! aaww thats abit unfair ur sister kicks up a fuss and she gets what she wants u move out i feel that ur mum needs to tell ur sister taht she cant have everything her own way and she will need to adapt to the new situation as its not fair on u hunni thats how i feel can u not talk to ur mum and ur sister its not fair pregancy can be stressful as it not that as well xxx | ive tried so hard, but im tired of having to fight to live here. its time to give in and grow up on my own i guess. | | | | Status: Online
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Apr 7th, 2008, 22:53 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Your sister needs to bloody grow up!  15? If my sister was acting like that I'd give her a good slap lol | | | | Status: Online
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Apr 7th, 2008, 22:55 PM
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#10 | | Rachel An Her Little Man Chat happy BnB member Proud Teen Mummy To Be x Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Liverpool
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Originally Posted by toriaaaaTRASH Your sister needs to bloody grow up!  15? If my sister was acting like that I'd give her a good slap lol | tried that one too haha, that was my first plan of action, usually works too but this time sadlyy  | | | | Status: Online
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