Samantha675

Well I guess you should start by finding out what kind of financial assistance there is for you in terms of house, food and such. Since I am unsure of the laws in the UK, you may have difficulty since you are underage. Regardless of the decision your mother has made, she does have a certain obligation for your care till you are an adult, so it may be difficult for you to get much help. Good luck hun, I think what your mother is doing is terribly unfair and your sister needs a reality check.

Jayden'sMummy

me too bu what can i do im 16, i am currently on a housing list called property pool which could take a few months, as for money for food and such i have no clue up to now lol

Gems

I really admire you, you are so grown up and being very unselfish with the whole situation. You shouldnt have to move out of your home but the way you are trying your best to move on and cope on your own is amazing. I wish you all the luck with finding a place and setting up home for you and your baby. Your a star ! xxx

Newt

Your mum has asked you to move out because your sister doesn't like the fact you're preggers?

so techically kicking her pregnant daughter out?

And you are still speaking to your mum?!?!?!

good greif you are a very understanding person, I would have gone nuts....

I hope you are ablt to sort things out I'm sorry I don't have more useful advice

toriaaaaTRASH

That's her little niece or nephew in your belly and she needs to realise that. I guess I'm lucky that my sister loves her nieces and nephew already and is looking forward to mine.

If you're definately going to move out then if your mum writes a letter to the council saying you have nowhere to go they'll house you straight away. Good luck.

Jayden'sMummy

Yeh i am still speaking to both my mum + little sister. my sister cant wait for the baby to be born but she just doesnt want him living with her, i dont no why.. she wont speak to me any more. understanding? not so much, i just get on with it, i love them and they love me but things are in a bad situation. i just dont show them i am upset or angry about it and things are going ok up to now, just waiting to hear of the council but they said it will be hard to re-house me because i am under 18! i am pregnant for gods sake, i would have to be literally living on the streets for them to even put me in a shit hole of a hostel never mind a flat haha. shit appins, we got to get on with it i guess xx

Jayden'sMummy

i no its her nephew inside of me and she does love him, she talks to my belly and strokes him (really annoying haha), i guess things wernt meant to happen easily. the council are no help at all they said i would have to be living on the streets to even be considered to go in a hostel and even then i would have to share a home with other people i dont no, which is pretty scary when you think about it. i will just have to wait for things to happen when they happen.

Newt

its such an injustice when someone who really needs help cant get it, but then others get everything.

Jayden'sMummy

thank you everyone for your support and just for being there to help me talk about it, its hard to talk to my mum about it because she just says "well you should have thought about it before you got pregnant" i know she means well but it hurts sometimes.

Rachel xxx

Jayden'sMummy

i know, but what can we do?
im 16 and they see me as irrisponcible as if i asked to be in this situation.