| I do the writing thing too. It is easier but its important to clarify things (and i know this is difficult but if you leave it in the air, there is no resolution). at least this is what i have experienced in my own relationship. i found that it is my responsibility to teach him how to treat me so if i chicken out and not faceoff eventually he will continue to disregard my feelings......its a hard lesson but its important to stand up or he will continue doing it.
sending you hugs..........and support......... |