Moulder86

Me and babies dad have ended our relationship but we're still good friends and I still see him everyday, spend most of the weekend together and all that sort of thing but I miss him.

I know that probably sounds really silly, ok so it's more like I miss us than him but I wish there was a way I could have it all back but it's never going to happen. He's still in love with his ex, gets messed up everytime he sees her or speaks to her. Misses his little boy and gets heart broken everytime he sees him because he's cryin cos he wants his daddy home and living with them.

All I ever do is try and support him and help him with things. I do his washing up....make his bed....cook for him a lot and it's just because I'm a mug and can't bare not seeing him. I hate it but I can't not have him in my life.

I don't know what to do!!

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toriaaaaTRASH

I think you need to be stronger. You cannot let him treat you like that. No matter how much you think you need him that's not helping you atall!

lfc_sarah

You deserve better.

i know at the moment it may seem that hes the only one for you and you want it to work really badly...
But these types of relationships usually dont work in the long run.
Its seems as though your a lot more into him, then he is to you, still caught up with his ex, while your doing everythin you can to make him happy.

Sounds harsh but i dont think he will ever be happy with you, not unless he gets over his ex first!
xxx

Lil_Baby_Boo

I think you need to stop 'mothering' him and although you care about him try and focus on something else!
I hope you don't mind me asking but why do you see each other everyday & weekends? Do you do things as a couple - watch DVD's that kinda thing?

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Moulder86

I know it's wrong and I should stop, I know we're never going to be a couple or a happy family even if he does get over his ex. We're a bit of fun that got out of hand.

If I don't see him or speak to him I don't really see or speak to anyone else. My friends don't really want to know they've all got their own lives. I go round on my way home from work and have a cup of tea and chat occasionally I'll stick around and we'll do dinner together. At weekends we chill out together watch DVD's he has his little boy on a Saturday afternoon and we do things like go for walks and stuff. I think the world of his little boy and his little boy apparently doesn't stop talking about me when he goes home so it's nice to spend time with him as well.

But then I get really pissed off about him talking to his ex about our baby and my name ideas with her texting back about how gay they are. He doesn't know I know about it though so I can't confront him about it.

I guess it's more about me being lonely and a single mum than anything but I do miss us having a laugh and the other couple stuff too.

xx