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Old Mar 18th, 2008, 08:48 AM   #1
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The OH genrally on a morning gets up for work gets ready etc then comes and gives me a hug before he goes off.

this morning oohhh nooo deffiately not!

so i woke myself up and asked him wat was wrong ... he came out with the usual 'nothing im fine'

i text him asking what was wrong and i got ' why don't you just go F*** Steven'

excuse me?

he is acusing me of sleeping with my bestfriend from work! and has announced he is leaving me!

i just don't know what to do. I love him with all my heart!

I have been feeling sick in the morning and my boobs are sore. i have a good feeling this month and he decides he wants to not trust me!

i cant live with out him!

sorry just had to express my feelings!

hope you all have a good day!

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Old Mar 18th, 2008, 08:51 AM   #2
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I don't know what to say, just wanted to send you some hugs
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Old Mar 18th, 2008, 09:01 AM   #3
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Aw sweetie you poor thing! I really really hope you guys work things out!
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I would be going in to work and having it out with him! Thats so unfair to accuse you of something.
Hope you sort it soon.
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Old Mar 18th, 2008, 09:48 AM   #5
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I really hope he calms down and realises it's all in his head.
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Old Mar 18th, 2008, 10:00 AM   #6
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Bit harsh unless he thinks he has some proof. Not fair to say such a thing and then leave you to mull it over all day. I would try and confront him sooner rather than later. MEN
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Old Mar 18th, 2008, 10:09 AM   #7
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Oh hun i'm sure he's just worrying and so he's making a rash decision which he probably wont stick to....just make him feel wanted and let him know how much you care without arguing with each other and then h'll calm down

cool that you are hopeful for this month

when you testing?
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Old Mar 18th, 2008, 16:31 PM   #8
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i'm testing..... the 4th but i think i ovulated early this month. i had my cramps a week early but i don't get my hopes up cause AF always always smashes them.

but on the OH side , i think we are cool now. he text me saying sorry and he is cooking dinner! shock shock!

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Old Mar 18th, 2008, 17:20 PM   #9
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Glad you kissed and made up hunni.

Men can be a nightmare sometimes, and understanding them is just as hard as them understanding us.
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Old Mar 20th, 2008, 18:20 PM   #10
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Aww glad you've sorted it hun! I know how u feel, i've gone through the same thing myself..my best friend used to be a guy also, infact we lived together for 2years before OH and i started living togther..and it was sooo difficult with OH..They tried to be mates but it didnt work, Ewan was just too jelous and would always come out with remarks the same as what your OH said to you. In the end my best friend decided to keep away from me, thinkin he was ruining mine and OH's relationship

Hope you can reassure your OH and all works out for you hun...u just need to convince him that if its your friend u wanna be with then u WOULD go be with him! lol. oh and good luck for the 4th!!! x

PS love ur swim spermies swim thing!
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