Iwantone!!!

shes a jeasouls fruitloop end off she needs to get a life and stop trying to get her EX bk hes and EX for a reason tel her to be less of a bitch and be a mother to her children x

lousielou

I do feel soooooo much better after having a moan - my husband has a habit of grinning and bearing it for the sake of the kids, which means he always backs down to her - very annoying! Thank you girlies, am reassured! :-)

alyxzandra

What a mad woman! I cannot believe she had your husband come over to clean up after a party and now to say you are your husband are too affectionate! Sounds like pure jealousy to me and she is using the children as a weapon. Surely no judge would take on board her allegations.

mummy_channon

thats disgusting!! u should b allowed how you want to act in the privacy of your own home and holding hands in a resturant isnt a crime!!
i dont know what to suggest but jesus she relly is the ex from hell and i hope u find a way to sort it out! good luck!!

GemGems

I want to swear but i know i cant
There are alot of women out there that have been in your shoes, me being one of them! But unfortunately, my boyf (who is now my ex) was too weak to stand up to to his ex-wife. She fed their daughters head with stories of abuse and allsorts! She was sick in the head. Sounds a bit like your partners ex actually!! lol

I feel for you. Hope things get better

Spartacus

what an absolute idiot is all I can say. Can't you report her to social services for manipulating her children. That is not a mother as far as I am concerned.

I feel for you and I think I would have done her some damage by now evil manipulative old bag. Tell her to get a life.

Newt

See! This is exactly the kind of thing that would make me do it even more. In front of the kids, in the restaurant, in the corner shop, on the bus stop etc etc...

she has no right to tell you how to conduct your relationship and no right to use the kids as weapons or spies.

I would shower my OH with love and kisses, and the kid's too, I would turn it into a joke and send them home covered in lipstick...

lousielou

He he he! She's a rotton mother, and a real pain in the arse when it comes to the poor kids...

I like the lipstick idea very much, but fear I may wake up with a horse's head on my pillow if I dared to!! I think having a good old moan is the best way to make me feel better y'know, and my gorgeous OH is begining to show signs of developing a back-bone, so hopefully she won't be cracking her proverbial whip too much longer!

Cheers for your support girles, nice to be reassued!

Samo

how shocking! i am so sorry to hear you have to go through something like that, craziness! Is it really something the kids don't like? or is it something their mother is teaching them as a "bad" thing? Terrible. Ex wife sounds like a very controlling person... I wonder if Ex Wife gets a new OH if she would be allowed to act lovey-dovey infront of her kids? hmmm? bah!

i do hope things turn out for the better for you guys.

lousielou

[quote=Samo;328655]how shocking! i am so sorry to hear you have to go through something like that, craziness! Is it really something the kids don't like? or is it something their mother is teaching them as a "bad" thing? Terrible. Ex wife sounds like a very controlling person... I wonder if Ex Wife gets a new OH if she would be allowed to act lovey-dovey infront of her kids? hmmm? bah!

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Well, you see that's an interesting point - I am sureit's something that is being installed in them as it's only recently started. I really think it's just horrible to mess with a little person's mind in a blatent attempt to get one over on someone. Kids are so impressionable, and I'm sure being exposed to a happy, loving relationship can only do a child good - telling them it's 'wrong' is surely paving the way for a lifetime of damaging relationships?? Thanks again girls for all the hugs and support :-)