Rumpskin

I need to rant girls!

I went to hospital on Tuesday to get the results of the lump in my breast. I aso had a mammogram and ultrasound. It will be 2 weeks yesterday that I found this lump.

Anyway, OH phoned me after I came out of the hospital and cried when I told him everything was okay.

He then drove to my parents to meet me. When he arrived, I was on the phone to my eldest sister. Was not on for long but told her about the lump (did not tell her before as i did not want to worry her). Then phoned my other sister with my news.

Went back downstairs where OH was with my mum. He was tired and quiet.

I then suggested we go out for food to celebrate. He said that he could not really afford to so I said that I would pay.

Anyway, he was really quiet then and afterwards was really sarcy to me. He said the reason he was like that is because I spoke to my sisters first. WTF! I thought I have just been through the shitest 2 weeks of my life and all you can muster up is sarcasm. I walked off and drove home seperately.

He then goes out last night for a meal (of which he has to pay someone back for).

Am I being a total bitch or something? I just wanted to share my happiness with him and all he could do is ruin it.

Rant 2 - sorry girls. Any ideas for getting him to help me out around the house? His idea is for me not to cook for him, not to wash his clothes, not to iron so that I dont have to do so much!

Nikkinoonoo

Sorry to hear you have been having a tough time lately. xXx

babezone

Hey hun Dont blame ya for feeling like that...but surely i duno if i red wrong but u sed you called him and he cryed with relief etc...then he met u at your parents and u told the rest.....so forgive me if im wrong but u did tell him before your sisters.....Hope ya ok x x x x x

Vickie

Sounds like OH needs a reality check there. Of course you are going to call your family quickly

Rumpskin

You are right - makes me want to rant more!

elles28

I hope you sort things out soon & they get better for you...after the last weeks he should be waiting on you hand & foot...take care xx

Rumpskin

That is what I thought too. xx

niknaknat

Rumpskin, the only thing that really matters here hun is that you are O.k, men are sensitive touchy creatures who are rarely on the same wavelength as us. Glad to hear that all is well with you chick

Iwantone!!!

aaww hunni he needs a kick up the arse what i started with my OH when he was not helping out when i was leaving for work can you please do the dishes for example then slowly built it up over the next few weeks and now one week i clean top to bottom and the next week OH does it so try that hunni xxx