Moulder86

Apparently I'm really f*ckin annoing and I should just sod off to Warminster.

Rich and I split up a little while ago but we've still been seeing each other most nights and just hanging out as we both have a lack of friends at the moment and well neither of us want to be on our own all the time.

Anyway tonight after his everyday drinking he's been a right twat, we go into bed and put a video on I tried to sort the tracking out and he got shitty with me cos I should have just left alone. I only made it worse, there was no need for me to do that.

So I got up tried to put something else on but he was being grumpy, then said I should just go to Warminster. So I just left, I've had enough of him taking his alcohol induced moods out on me.

I know I should just let him get on with it but I hate seeing him like that he means a lot to me and I just hoped we'd get for bubs sake, seems I was wrong!!

yumumleelou

seems to me like he doen't deserve you hun.
keep trying at it though for the bubs sake. x x x x good luck. x x x

Moulder86

To be honest all I've ever done is try n help him and b there for him, I've ust run out of energy now. He can be there as much or as little as he likes when it comes to bubs but I think our friendship has finally come to an end.

But thank you xx

Samantha675

Love if he is drinking, then there is nothing you can do. There comes a point with ever addict that you have to insist they get help or walk away. I had to do that with my ex-husband. As painful as it was, it was the only way to save myself.

Rach & Bumpy

honey! That's not nice! I feel like i'm getting al the stick in our relationship too at the moment.

Where abouts are you chick?

I live in Westbury.

Iwantone!!!

hunni u need to look after urself and bub and let him be and let him realise what a tosser hes being but he cant do that while ur there he needs to reliase what he is losing by drinking xx

Moulder86

Rach,

I'm in Essex at the moment but I have family in Warminster, Bradford upon Avon and all over the area. I've been on the council list down there for a little while because I wanted to move down before but I'm not sure if I could really just up root myself and leave!

xx

sweetsammi

Sure u can hun! Now is the time to think of u and your baby, its time to put the 2 of you first-not Rich. It seems you've been trying to support him through his drinking problem, but some people just can't be helped-especially if they are not willing to help themselves. I think the two of you need a clean break from each other hun. If you've broken up, then you've broken up. I wouldnt still carry on seeing him on that level. Even if its just short term to give him time to realise what he's gonna lose for good if he dont pull his act together! Give him some time to get his head together and insist that he get himself some help. I understand you don't wanna be alone, but if you moved back closer to your family you wouldnt be. You have to ask yourself whether Rich is gonna get better or worse? Liklihood is he'll become worse without some help and if that happens will he make a good daddy to your child? You're strong hun, you have to be now, you're gonna be a mummy! And there's no stronger person in the world then that. Good luck! xx

clairebear

agreeing with everyone else hun, u just need to focus on u and bubs and make him realise what he will be missing xxx

Moulder86

I've got family up here too, my parent's, grandparents (mums side), siblings ect so it's not as if I'd be on my own here. My friends just seem rather distant and don't want to know, then theres Rich who's become my best friend but oh I'm just confused and I'm just a mess at the moment. But thank you all for your replies.

xxx