vicky

didn't want to read and run hun u need to look after your self and buds hun.

GemLou

Where abouts in Essex are you chick?

Concentrate on you and the baby, you don't deserve to have his alcoholic stuff thrown on you..

Moulder86

GemLou,

I go between Witham and Chelmsford at the moment. I've tried to help him deal with his alcohol problem for about 6 months now so it's just become part of life.....it's just my nature to want and try to help. He keeps telling me I'm too nice but I can't help it it's just the way I am.

xx

leeanne

Hun, I've learned a long time ago that you can't help someone...they need to want to help themselves.

Unfortunately, with the trade and businesses we own, we have had our run-ins with workers who have had addictions to crack, cocaine, alcohol, etc. We've tried to help but to no avail. They have to realize that they have a problem first and foremost, and then they need to make the decision to get help.

Sometimes by helping them, you are enabling them too.

I've seen alcoholism while growing up too as my mom dated a few that were. The worse they were, the more violent they became to my mom too.

I truly think you need to think of yourself and your LO. That's who should come first and foremost in your life