I was checking my DH's email.. so I see this email coming from a friend... the title looks nasty... so I open it, and there was a video...

Oh MY! I wish I didnt open it... it's all xxx and I am about to throw up and I feel so so so so so sad!

Why did DH receive that? I also saw some sent emails from DH's side with some less nasty pics and info but still not right..

What should I do?? I feel so sad I never thought DH would do stuff like that..

TBH it seems a typical guy thig to do!!

If it has upset you that much then mention it, but you can't really stop people sending him things can you

You have a good point about stop senders.. but what I am sad about also is that he actually sends stuff.. not that HEAVY as the one he receives.. but he does

I wont mention it now.

What would he do if I do that?? I mean.. ok he is a guy.. but being a guy makes it normal??????????? I dont think so

Suzan, if it upsets you then i would say something to him

Hi Suzan

I am sorry for your findings. Up to you how you deal with it. You can either forget what you saw or confront your OH.

Good luck lovely x

How awful for you. Similar thing happened to me many years ago ( lot of xxx videos) . I felt quite betrayed. As uncomfortable as it was had to have it out with him and let him know how it made me feel.

Sorry i didn't mean to offend you with what i wrote, but yeah it is normal for some men to look and send/receive stuff like that

But you are obviously very upset about, so i would maybe say something to him, explain how it makes you feel

just a thought ...may the fact that you did not know that what was exiting for him and may be if you did talk to him about it he will not be that interested in it as much...
you know i have being married for 10 year and just a couple of month ago my husband and i had a conversation about porn i for some reason thought he was the kind of guy who really did not care about porn and after talking about it he was like "laetitia i don't watch it because i now you probably will not like it but yeah! i am a guy i like porn sometimes ...any way i was choked first and than mad that i did not know he like it and he was not watching because of me ...(i had to admit i never never watched a porn movie before) but anyway i decide to go ahead and watch some with him and we were available to say well i like that and not that ...anyway the watching of the soft porn (because that the only thing i could handle to look at ) last for less than 2 month ... and he is not really turn on by it any more ...i think it was more like a fantasy to know i did not about like that kind of thing ...
don't worry to much hon...