Obviously this is the last thing on my mind right now but it is something I've been thinking about.

How on earth am I going to find myself another man whilst pregnant? Who's going to be interested in a 21 yr old with either a bump on the way or a young child?? What about having sex with someone after the birth of bubs who isn't the father of my baby?!?

I know I'm being silly and it's things I shouldn't be worrying about now but it's things that have been running through my head lately, I can't help it.

Stace xx

You'd be surprised at how many men are accepting of a women who has a child. Try not to worry about that I've heard many stories of women finding a guy after. You will be fine!

Hey, one of my hubby's exes has three children from three different guys. Now, she may find it hard to find a guy, and obviously is as she's still single. If they were all from the same guy, perhaps she'd find it easier. LOL

lol thanks Leeanne, I know it's silly but I'm a family orientated girl and I hate the fact ex and I couldn't be together as a family for lil one but that's just how things go. Ex and I are still good friends just don't work as a couple. But I couldn't imagine being single and not having anymore kids and a proper family.

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Hiya Stace

I worry about the exact same thing as u lol

Sometyms im like erghh I got mre important things 2 worry bout but I cnt help it

Im bit younger than you so im like surely I cnt stay single 4eva aswell lol?]

Is ur bubas dad still doin his bit?

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Well he says he will but when I say certain things he comes up with excuses. L0ike being able to have bubs for me a night or two a week so I can get decent sleep and such and he says I can't have a baby in my flat. If I'm not allowed to have a dog or anything that makes noise I'm not going to be allowed a baby.

He does say about having a few days off when bubs gets here to "teach" me stuff (he already has a 4 yr old). He's going to be at the birth and come to scans and that but I get the feeling it's going to be left to me mostly.

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You'll win someone's heart one day. Hey, look, I have three stepkids. Somehow hubby won my heart. LOL

I've thought about this before too, but I've already talked to a few guys who've made it clear that if they liked a girl, then they wouldn't let the fact that she has a baby put them off. Obviously there will be some guys who are bothered by it, but then they're not really worth it imo. x

Exactly. And the thing is, when you find a man that is accepting, it means he is generally more mature than most

Yea that's the other problem, I've been told I'm very mature for my age and finding a guy on the same wave length as me might be hard.

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I wouldn't worry about this, i have a lot of friends that were single mums and now they are in happy loving relationships and the children are treat as if they were the partners own. Just concentrate on yourself and baby at the moment, you meet someone when the times right and usually when your least expecting it!