I'm not really worried about it, but it's just run through my head a few times since I've realised I'm going to be a single mum.

Oh lovely, good advice I have always held onto is dont go looking as you will never find.

Good luck xx

i had quite alot of male attention when i had my bump and still now when im walking around with a tiny newborn in towe LOL, i mean im back with OH now so im not looking and wasnt really when i was pregnant but its nice to see that if it came to it i wouldnt have a hard time finding some company lol xxx

my OH took me on with a 4 month old baby! we were both confused about the sex thing as i hadn't been with anyone since conception and had no idea of the state of things down there and he had never been with a woman who has had a baby. We were both pleasently surprised and a week ago we had our first baby together!!

maybe if u a mature 21yr old u need to go for an older guy im 21 and my OH is 25 and i find we are on the same wavelenght hunni dont worry bot a man and u having a baby they will love u both equally and if they dont they anit worth having xx

awwwww hun i know many men who have settled down with friends of mine with 3-4 children...well look at me im 29 have 5 children and i found sum1 who is great with evry1 of them and we are now expecting number 6...yes its a bit different than if you were single as he has to take on package and u have to trust him to do that but ur love life def isnt over...

split up with my ex 2 yrs ago after 13 years...i hadnt slept with him for 8 mths then went without for 14 mths as i just didnt want any but i met me hunni and well wow hee hee u will look back one day wondering why u worried...there are w*****s out there but they aint all like it..

good luck with babby

tanya

When I met my current OH, my son was a toddler (going through the terrible twos as well!!) We did split once, but that was nothing to do with my son- it was because he lived 70 miles away at that time and it was a strain.

Well, seven years later.... we are together and expecting a baby of our own, getting married and have lived together for five years. He got a job closer to me initially and like any relationship we have had our ups and downs. But I would never say that me having a child ever stopped me meeting men

So take heart hunny, you are young and as long as you meet the right guy everything will fall into place

Redhorse xxx

Iwantone, I did go for an older man twice and well that's what's got me in this situation. He was 34 but more of a child than me.

But thanks girlies, I appreciate your replies I know things will work out in the end just worries me a lil I suppose. And congrats to Jenny and Snugglemuffin on your new arrivals!!

xx