fifi83

Ok girls i didnt want to post this cos i feel guilty i suppose.

Before i got pregnant i was totally inlove with my OH. Now i cant seem to stand anything he does, says, him touching me or anything.

He hasnt done anything and is really good to me and my son from a perivous relationship.

Its making me really sad, and feel like im going to spoil it all for my children.

What the hell is wrong with me

Has anyone else felt like this? and does any one have any advise for me?

Carolyn

no advice sorry, just thought i'd send you a big

sure it's not just the wicked old hormones playing with your mind? my opinion about stuff has changed since being pregnant, hope it gets back to normal soon or when the baby's born... sorry i cant be any more help, are you still talking to him about 'stuff'?

toriaaaaTRASH

Everything my OH did, said, wanted for the first 18 weeks were a disgrace and I didn't want to be with him, look at him, touch him, breathe the same air as him unless I had to! It was hormones though...

fifi83

Thank you, Not really im not that open, altho he no's how i feel cos i can be nasty to him at time. i hope things change in the next few weeks.

fifi83

Thanks, I hope mine is too, us women eh.

anita665

It's always scary when you start to feel like that in a relationship but often it doesn't last very long.

I can go a week feeling like that towards OH at the moment where I just get frustrated and annoyed but then it goes and I really love him again. I blame pregnancy hormones.

Also I remember quite a while ago now feeling really indifferent towards him and just not close. I thought I was maybe falling out of love with him but again it was just a stage. I bet if it came down to it you'd still not want to lose him!!

Linzi

It is scary and I felt similar for a while but I think it was just my hormones. It sounds silly, but even the way he ate did my head in for a while. I still loved him but it was very easy for us to fight.

Theres no advice I can give really, just wait it out til your hormones settle and Im sure everything will be fine.

Hope you feel better soon hun

xxx

leeanne

I think it is the hormones playing on your mind. I don't like to blame hormones but I did feel like that through one of my pregnancies. You are more sensitive to things at this time!

Try and be nice to OH

Quite truthfully, many of them feel left out as it is, especially after the baby is born. For the first few months, especially if mom breastfeeds, fathers feel left out because the baby is relying a lot on mom.

They also tend to get jealous all the attention an expectant mom gets. Sheesh, the week before I was due with my first, my hubby decides he wants to buy a new truck, and that's all he talked about. It went on until I delivered the baby. I remember my first day of induction, they sent me home. Hubby had me up until midnight talking about what truck to get, etc.

Iwantone!!!

aaawww hunni ((((((hugs))))