tanya29

some people get into a rut like this and stay there out of love...but you are putting babby first no matter how much it hurts you...my ex used to shout at our children quite a lot and the arguements we had over it was amazing because my children are a bit older and you could see the confusion in their eyes as if to say wat we done daddy...in his case he was an alcoholic so he was either drunk or hung over and never in the mood for 5 children running around...i would never leave our children with him as i didnt trust him to look after them...it aint no life...hence the reason hes my ex...now hes lost everything he pities himself but now the loves gone i feel nothing but disgust towards him

anyhow this seperation may sort the other halfs head out then u will be stronger when you come back together...and if he doesnt hes not worth being with...

good luck hope everything works out for you and partner and babby hes beautiful

mickey

your nurse friend might be right and if so, I think this pattern of behaviour can only be changed by councelling!

did you consider a partner therapie?

if you really love each other this might help you all staying together as a family!

obviously your OH needs to let out some air 'bout his experiences and surely he doesn't want to use Olivier to do so, but it looks like that it is out of his control!!!

sweetsammi

Hi girls! Thankyou all so much for all ur support, its really helped me to get through this. I apologise for takin so long to post this..my parents internet has been really playin up. Ewan and i have met up a few times and had a good chat. He has spoken to a counciler and a doctor who diagnosed him with PND! We have decided to try again, i believ he made a terrible mistake which he has paid for now and i feel we all deserve a 2nd chance..he told me he darent fall bk into his old ways as he knows hw it feels to lose his family n losin us again isnt an option, that he would dare put a foot wrong again! lol. I really hope so. We will be makin some changes though, like movin closer to our families so we can have some support. Thanks again for all ur advice xxx

leeanne

Fabulous news! As I said before, sometimes a separation makes both parties understand what they were doing wrong, etc.

Hope all goes well for you!!!!!!!

Layla

so pleased its all ok for you, i thought it might have been PND from what you were saying, Jase went thorugh a stage of having it also, its tough but they do come thorugh the other side

Best of luck hun to both of you

x

maybebaby

Wonderful news!! I am so happy for you

doctordeesmrs

Hope it all works out hun.

xclairex

thats fab news lovey xx