LaDY

Hey ladies...need some advice with my current dilemma...(bet you are all sick of me and my problems!)...due to having no family support and the OH not really playing a part in things as much as he should you ladies are the only people who can help me!...Iv basically got to be out of the current property i am in in the next 3weeks...I have no where to go The OH said he will see what he can do but as usual is far too busy so its up to me to protect my baby and me...i have looked at all the private houses to rent, seen so many i can afford however the deposits are huge! Does anyone know of any company who can help me with the deposit...i know it is always advertised but i dont know much about it?! There is no point in asking my OH as to ne honest the only thing he does know is...msn and chatrooms

Rumpskin

Hi lovely

Sorry to hear of your dilema. Cant you go and stay with family/friends temporarily?

My parents were great when I went through probs with OH. Plus you get pampered too!

Good luck xx

LaDY

I wish i could...my family don't want to know...iv got no one

Rumpskin

I am so sorry lovely. I dont know you but if you lived near me, you could come and stay with us

There must be someone who could help even if very temporary.

Sending you a hug.

Give your OH a big bloody kick and tell him to pull his finger out. You both need looking after.

xxx

LaDY

Maybe it is the stage that i am at in the pregnancy...im tierd and im sick of trying to kick him up the arse to sort things out. You would think being a expectant father would make you grow up but it appears he is re living his youth again!...all he does is sits on the internet talking on messenger and adding random people on his msn and what it appears to me is that he is constantly flirting with other women however he sees it as being friendly and he loves me! In the entire time throughout my pregnany i have basically done it alone...he has argued with me about not wanting the child, made me cry my heart out...and now that he has decided that he wants the child he thinks his responsibilitys only start when my baby is born...hes missed out on so much and for some reason now i am starting to really hate him...i have done so much for him it is unbelievable...and i think it hits me when im out shopping for the baby alone and i see couple buying things together and there is me all alone, then i went to purchase a baby record book and as soon as i read the front bit ''how did mummy and daddy feel whene they found out that you were on the way'' i just cant find the heart to buy it, as i never want my little boy to know what an asshole the father was during my pregnancy. Im already alone and him not being there either doesnt help.

Younglutonmum

Hiya hunni

Im in exact same situation as you. Now I know my local council does a tenancy deposit scheme where basicly they pay ur deposit 4u n then u work out a manageable plan with them 2 pay it back. Im thinking it must be a national scheme? Im intending to use that so I can get somewhere 4 me n my bump. I think you have to be claiming some sort of benifit tho. Not 2 sure however so u should check it out.

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Vickie

Don't really have any advice for you (I'm in Canada and don't know much about housing in the UK) but thought you could use a

swattongemz

I know some council offer a deposit scheme, you have to be on benefits to qualify or low income, with no other help. If you have nowhere else then you will have to go to your local council who should arrange temporary accomodation.