Samantha675

I think your leaving is the right thing. Really Sammi, it is more than just him losing his temper with the baby, and not being ready to be a day. You deserve to find someone who you want to cuddle, and talk to and love. You need more out a relationship than just a father for your son, you deserve that. I don't think this is your fault either. It takes two people to make a child, and it take two people to make a relationship work. You could kill yourself for the next million years, but if he is not doing his part as well, then it will never ever work no matter what you do. I hope that he does grow up and see how amazing it can be to be a father. I know it will be really hard to leave, but it really is for the best, for both of you!

Stef

Don't worry about it i know you have had alot on hun.

I bet you're glad he has opened up to you though, I suppose its given you more of an understanding to his behaviour. I hope he just dosent use these feelings as an excuse for any more actions in the future.

You're doing the right thing and i'm glad he can see it. Im glad you're able to go to your mams with Oliver. That way you will have support around you when you need it most.

x

maddiwatts19

AquaDementia

You are doing the right thing. Don't even question your decision.

sweetsammi

My heads still all over the place. Ewans bein extra nice...sounds about right. We've agreed that when i leave it will be on good terms and Ewan will have unlimited access to Oliver. Although Ewan is sad that ill be in leics while he stays in Derby which means he wont be able to see Oliver all the time perhaps it will help not spendin so much time with him. Maybe he'll learn to be more pateint etc. We both feel we'll get on alot better as friends and be better parents if we seperate. I am so sad though, we did have somethin really special and i honestly could see us spendin our whole lives together. We both wanted it to work so much , we still do. But i asked him if deep down he could see us workin and he said no..and that was my answer also. If he'd of asked me before i was pregs i wudda said yes for definate, we had plans to marry and everythin, we where gonna buy a house soon. It just seems so sad. I dunno when im gonna go yet. Theres alot i need to sort out first .x

Stef

just wanted to offer a hug

xx

Jenny

I'm so sorry everything turned out this way for you hon but after reading your other post and this one, its definitely the right choice you're making. Hopefully in time he can come around and be the dad he's suppose to be but until then, its probably best to move on. Good luck sweetie, I'm sure things will be tough at first but everything will fall into place eventually. Remember we are always here to listen

Samo

Sorry to hear that things have gone the way they are. Stay strong though, i think a break (whether it will be a short or a forever one) is a good thing for the three of you. And leaving on good terms, it really couldn't be a better ticket out. I wish you all the best and hope things get sorted out.

You're a GREAT mum and Ollie is lucky to have you.

Good luck!

nikkybaby

I think you are making a very good decision. Leaving on good terms is the best possible ending. And who knows, maybe this break is just something the two of you need to work everything out. Just remember, we are here for you

BurtonBaby

I think you are definitely making a good decision. I'm sorry to hear how he has been, but you are being a great mom by taking your little boy and getting out of that situation asap. Your right, you dont need to wait until your little boy has low self esteem, and can never have a real relationship with his father because of how he treats him. Hope things go ok.