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maddiwatts19 · Jan 24th, 2008, 12:17 PM

ARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG.

thats a bit better!.

why are men so annoying???

my OH got a text last night from an ex, and they're still friends, so i was ok with it. But i asked him if she knew about the baby, he said no, so i told him to tell her! And he hadnt told her we were engaged either, and we've been engaged for about 5/6 months now!!!
Anyway, she just replied saying, "oh that was quick, what happend to 'your the one i want to be with'???.
So now im completely confused!.!
I asked him about it, and he said that he said that before me and him got together. But i just dont get why she said it?.
whats the point in trying to cause shit between us?.

I love my man more than anything!. He treats me like an angel, but why didnt he tell her about us?

I was speaking to OH's sister about it, and she said maybe she said it cos shes jealous, but shes engaged to, so why should she be bothered??.

Argggg i know i've got more important things to think about/worry about, but i cant get it off my mind! :cry2:

argggggg men are SO annoying!!.

sorry for ranting, thank you for listening!

rant over!!

Jo · Jan 24th, 2008, 13:15 PM

aww hun

no advice but i hope you feel better now you have got it off your chest

Tilly · Jan 24th, 2008, 13:19 PM

Hard to say without knowing them! but I think that does sound like an ex type of comment. Sounds like she is definitely still bitter or in love with him or just the jealous type even. I understand why you're feeling upset, if my boyfriend spoke to his ex, I would feel very hurt and paranoid! In his defense though, he might not have wanted to tell her because he knows what she is like.

Hope you can sort it out and are ok.

Vickie · Jan 24th, 2008, 13:44 PM

Sounds like she has some jealousy issues

anita665 · Jan 24th, 2008, 13:51 PM

She most probably is jealous and maybe not happy with the guy she is with. When I got with OH he had an ex constantly texting him and then she started texting me too. It was terrible because in the back of your mind you can't help but wonder but you'd know if there was more to it with your OH. It's just instinct!!

He didn't tell her that we were engaged first of all either which upset me.

maddiwatts19 · Jan 24th, 2008, 15:11 PM

Thank you for all the advice guys!
its just something i could really do without at the moment!
i'll happily be the first to admit that my mans lovely! but SHE left him for this other bloke!
I had no problem with him texting her because they were friends.
He admited that he did say it, but aparantly beforewe got together.
But there was no-one in between me and her!.
Grrrrr its just annoying!
Some people are bitches!
xx

Jules · Jan 24th, 2008, 15:45 PM

I wouldn't like my OH texting his ex. He used to infact be friendly with her when we first started going out but he stopped when i told him i didn't like it!