elles28

Please Please listen to Wobbles...I had a friend in the same situation but thank god there was no pregnancy/baby involved It started out like you said & within weeks it was a much worse situation...go to your parents

maddiwatts19

CK Too

I can only repeat what others have said. I´m not speaking from experience but I understand where you are coming from when you say you always said you would never put up with that kind of behaviour, but now that you are in the situation its easier said than done.

Violence against anyone is wrong and unacceptable. You have to put you and your baby´s health as priority here and get help.

I hope you manage to sort it all out soon

reallytinyamy

Thank you everybody

The doctor was great, I sobbed and told him everything. He has put me on some medication to help the depression and anxiety. I don't know where I go from here but hopefully my head will clear soon and I can think straight.

Thank you all for your support

Vickie

You really need to get out of that situation before he harms you (any further) and the baby. My mom was in an abusive relationship for 12 years, stayed in it because she thought that all children needed their father around. Looked around one day, saw how the abuse (my father never did touch me or my brother but we had to watch him hit our mother) was affecting us and left than and there. You don't want to bring up a child in that kind of environment.

nikkybaby

All I can do is agree with what everyone else has said. Get out now, before its too late. You don't deserve to be treated like that. I'm sure your parents will help and support you through anything, so talk to them. That is why they are there.

Jules

Oh Amy I am so sorry, glad your feeling a bit better for seeing the doctor x

I was in an abusive relationship (before i met my current partner) and the best thing i ever did was walk away, it was hard but now when i look back i can't believe i stayed so long! sometimes it still effects me, like any sudden movements and i'll flinch. But now i have a very loving partner and were very happy together.

xx

PINKDIAMOND

I agree with everyone else. Get out!. Kick him out of your house and change all the locks and if worst comes to the worst get a big fat restraining order on him. Violence is not acceptable. If you dont get out now you might not get out at all and next time there could be a whole lot more damage than just a swollen wrist.
Always look out for yourself and your baby. It doesnt sound like its a safe enough enviroment to bring your baby in to. Do what is best for you and your baby. Whatever that maybe.
I hope things get better for you soon. Take care

Samantha675

Get out now. There is no excuse for physical violence and your statment about how you yell and such is just making an excuse for what he did. Go to your parents now. Get your dad to go home with you, change the locks and file a restraining order against him before it gets worse. You do not have to have a relationship with this man because of the child. My best friend has 2 kids and has not spoken to the father for 4 years now. Amy, life does not have to be this way, he is wrong in ever action. Please don't let yourself be hurt further.

ladymilly

you poor thing. i agree with the others. get out now. if he can treat you like this when your pregnant how would he treat you when you have the baby. and also will he treat the baby this way? you have to think of you and the baby now. i can only imagine how hard it is for you but he is a bully and has no right to treat you like this. nobody deserves that. please go to your parents and i'm sure they will support you. and get him out of your house. its yours and if you pay the mortgage then he has no right to stay there. i really hope you'll be ok xxxxxx