reallytinyamy

Or are things getting worse?Am I over reacting like Mark said.

This is going to be long, I'm sorry.

I got a text when he finished work. It read: " I'm taking Danielle home. Got talking about today. See you soon. X"

I thought Fine, he often gives her a lift home and is home at 6:30. I sent a text straight back saying "!you mean you're talking about the baby?" No reply.

Reasons I got annoyed- please tell me if you think these are out of order.

1) I wanted to know if he'd told her about he baby. No answer. I knew thats what he meant but we haven't even told our parents yet so thought it was a bit out of order to tell her- someone I don't know!

2) I thought that the person he should have been discussing what we had been through with was me!

3) By 7:00 he was not home. I started to panick and rang him- no answer. Left messages- nothing. Began to think he'd had an accident and got in a state. My dad happened to phone so obviously he then knew Mark had dissapeard.

4) When Mark came home at 7:15 he told me I was overreacting, had no reason to be upset and he'd just lost track of time at Danielles house. He added he told me where he was so what was the problem.

Now It may be me but that text reads he was DROPPING HER HOME not stopping for a cup of tea and a chat.
I pushed him to tell me what they'd been talking about for so long, and I had to push hard. He had told her all the baby, the scan, my job and the fact I have manic depression. What gave him the right to tell her that. I don't want a complete stranger knowing that about me but apparently he doesnt see a problem. please. Is it just me getting things out of all proportion.

cupcake

hun who is this danielle?

reallytinyamy

Someone he works with

I will also add that he has only known her a few weeks

cupcake

hunny do u suspect him of some kind of involvement with danielle or is this just a friend from work? i really dont know what to tell you about this, but i can say that just the fact that he texted u telling you he was taking her home seems like he isnt trying to do anything behind your back. have u sat down and had a real heart to heart with him?

reallytinyamy

No I don't think there is anything dodgy going on. The problem I have is that he goes to her flat when he needs to talk to someone, he spends loads of time with her having heart to hearts about our relationship and i feel he should be doing that with me

cupcake

sounds like you should sit him down, have dinner together and have a quiet chat, tell him how u feel , that you dont mind that he confides in others but that you need him to confide in you too, that you feel insecure at the moment and if he can try extra hard to make it easier on you, then ask him what you can do for him so he feels like he isnt being attacked. i hope this helps you hun.

reallytinyamy

yeah, I'm gonna have a chat to one of my mates today sort my head out and then go for it. I was worried he wasn't going to come home tonight, but said he will!

Iwantone!!!

please dont bite my head off : he may feel it easier talking to another girl and maybe talking to u about how u feel is hard for him and he maybe needs another female propect im not saying he right but he maybe doing this to make ur relationship stronger because he maybe able to understand how u feel much easier and maybe he needs to let rip to an indepent person who has no relatiosnhip to either u i.e family or friends and will gossip and say to everyone they know in the family that u have problems in the relationship is that the case coz i no for a fact if i tel certain mates something i know with 30mins of me leaving that have told a person i did not want to know and maybe also if ur a manic depressive he may feel a new person that has had no contact with u or his family or friend may feel she will not judge u and i dont mean that in a cruel way or nasty way if it comes across like that i do apologise hunni it must be so hard that ur man is going to another woman to talk about ur relationship rather than talk to u however he may need a female propesct try not take it to heart hunni (((((((((hugs)))))))

bexxie

I am with Tiff here,you do sound a tad like you are over-reacting tbh.

Sorry dont mean to sound harsh.
X

toriaaaaTRASH

Ummmm, I'd react exactly how you are. And I'm sure anyone else would.